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Enlightenment - an Idea created for cheating spiritual Seekers - 19 Aug 11
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Yesterday I wrote about inner changes and said that every change takes time. People want everything to be quick and fast nowadays. Many others have realized that they can make money with this fast culture. I don’t say there is anything wrong about such a business concept as long as it is honest. I don’t really think that it is real yoga if you change your postures so quickly that it looks as though you are in a hurry to finish but for some people this seems beneficial. Maybe it can be a way to start and then later start meditation and understanding the philosophy, too. I do not approve of it though, if the idea of selling something in a faster way becomes a means of cheating people.

I mentioned yesterday that people want ‘instant enlightenment’. They have heard about the long way that it takes a person to reach to this state and they hope to find a shortcut to get there. I don’t want to talk about my idea of the word ‘enlightenment’ but just let me tell you that I don’t believe in it the way that most people do these days. I don’t think that there is a moment in life in which a light is switched on, like a bulb, and from then on you are an enlightened being that can give enlightenment to others, switching on their inner light bulbs with just a little trick.

It sounds ridiculous even just writing it like this but there are many people who sell enlightenment in exactly this way! They call themselves living enlightened masters and promise to have you take part in this enlightenment if you pay them a certain amount of money. You will immediately experience bliss, complete peace, unconditional love and more.

It sounds good, doesn’t it? A shortcut to complete happiness. I want to warn people, if you see such offers, posters or newspaper advertisements, be aware! Don’t let yourself get tricked into such a thing! Those masters and Gurus are not honest and usually don’t have any interest in liberating your soul! They cheat people who have hope and are maybe greedy to reach this goal of liberation quickly. Who however can check whether their promise was fulfilled? What is the proof that a person is enlightened? Who will tell whether they had success and a person was not reincarnated anymore after this life because he had met this Guru?

They give a guarantee to be liberated from the cycle of birth and rebirth. You get certain instructions and shaktipat, an initiation. This means that they transfer the power to you. With this power you are enlightened and won’t have to come back to this world anymore. I tell you, you will be shocked in your next life when you wake up as a mouse or monkey and realize that this guru really cheated you!

Such gurus openly advertise their own state of enlightenment. I don’t know if you ever heard of the saying ‘Those who have it don’t say it, those who say it don’t know it’. Why would a person who has achieved this state of consciousness really travel from city to city and country to country, with thousands of people and their own merchandise and make advertisement with enlightenment? Couldn’t he sit in one place and do his good deeds from there? If this person is in some way magic and has supernatural powers, why does he have to go through the trouble of organizing this all and finding people around the globe willing to do a lot of effort for their program?

Don’t get me wrong, I don’t say anything about a proper business, where people share their knowledge in lectures and workshops and get money for that and I surely don’t say anything against asking people to donate for a good cause. The point is that people get cheated. They are made believe that this one person is holy and this is why it costs to see him and listen to him. Not because of his experience and knowledge or wisdom but because of his holiness and because he achieved enlightenment. That is also why whatever you buy from this person’s shop is three times more expensive than the same thing in another shop - it is holy merchandise, used by the holy master and now holy in itself. You pay for the holiness, not for the product. In reality however there is no difference. If you want to believe that something is holy, it will be holy for you. Then you can buy holiness, too. It is a bit expensive, but you can buy it. If you want to believe that he can bring you enlightenment, you may at some point feel as though you had achieved it.

What will you do then, if you spent enough time in company of this guru after your initiation and one day the guru tells you that you are enlightened, too? Will you go around and start the same business, enlightening others? We have seen many gurus selling this idea in the past and you can see them in present, too. In the past they found many buyers and in present, too, you see that they fill their tents with people and their pockets with money. It is a business that will surely not die out any time soon. Each and every of those enlightened gurus has a story about how he got enlightened. Whether it was on a mountain in solitude or that a tree started talking to him or he could suddenly see the whole world at once and hear everybody’s thoughts, the stories are colourful and made to enchant those who are listening.

I believe today’s idea of enlightenment has developed through this business and the supposition that you could give enlightenment to another person. If you see enlightenment as full happiness, an inner balance of love and peace and a pure state of consciousness, I am sure that you cannot buy it. It is nothing sellable or transmittable from one person to another. This inner state – and I refuse to call it enlightenment – can only be achieved through constant work on yourself. You can have a guide, a teacher in that but don’t expect that someone can do this for you. You are the one who has to do it and it is your effort that can bring you there. No instant enlightenment, no liberation by paying for it. Connecting with your love and peace inside yourself.

I tried my best to look enlightened on the picture above. What do you think?

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There is a gradual evolution of soul from a heart based in avarice to one based in love and peace, and this can certainly be aided and accelerated by good methods of sadhana or spiritual practice. Part of this sadhana is association with people who are more or at least equally evolved in love and peace. But Swami Balendu is certainly correct that many "Gurus" don't really have these qualities and are mainly spiritual businessmen who purport to be selling enlightenment. It is best to avoid such gurus and to not believe in or practice their bogus enlightenment rituals.
by Deniz on August 19, 2011 at 11:21:00 AM
I always wonder that people fall for the whole magic show around such Gurus. What do I care how many Siddhis he has achieved in his years of retreat in the mountains if he cannot, now and here, see that he is fully in ego and presenting himself as a god? I see now that he is not a right person. And it doesn't matter to me how many hospitals those gurus have built or what they have done for others. If I see their hand full of golden rings, I wonder where they came from. Enlightened jewelry?
by Dora Keen on August 20, 2011 at 01:24:00 AM
Very true, Swami. In today's society, people want an immediate answer and resolution to every problem. But spiritual growth is simply not like that. You can microwave your food, or fly to another country, or rapidly perform yoga postures...but true spiritual growth takes time, ups and downs, ebbs and flows.

I'd like to think that life is made up of a bunch of "little enlightenments." In other words, as we grow, we have moments of bliss, peace, and serenity where we reach a new level of awareness. These little enlightenments encourage us on our path, but they are not the end! After every little enlightenment comes a rut, a struggle, an issue, or another cloudy confusion as we face the next hurdle in our path to "enlightenment."

Maybe these false Gurus and followers experience little enlightenments and feel so empowered that they claim they've achieved it all. But each one of them will see another day where they can no longer convince themselves of their completed spiritual growth. Maybe next lifetime they will see it more clearly!

By the way, the photo is TOTALLY an enlightened shot! Haha
by Emily on October 4, 2011 at 11:24:00 AM
My belief is that enlightenment all starts with the simple act of thought. This thought can be on anything in a person's life or surroundings. I believe that it is only when one analyzes that thought in search of an alternate meaning or a realization that he or she didn't know beforehand about that thought does it take the form of "enlightenment". Enlightenment doesn't have to be something world changing or specifically important to anyone. It is just a deeper realization of something in the world that wasn't noticed before. So in essence enlightenment can mean something to you and nothing to anyone else and vice versa. I agree with you when you say that "you cannot buy it", but I am in disagreement when you say that it "nothing sellable or transmittable from one person to another." I believe that although it cannot be bought, it can be transmitted as with Martin Luther King Jr and Jesus Christ when they shared their beliefs and self generated enlightenment with a large population and in effect, became leaders of the population as their beliefs were invested in.
by Albert on November 30, 2011 at 08:25:00 AM
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Dear Albert,
Thank you for your comment. I also believe enlightenment happens within you and it can come from reading what someone else said, for example the words of Jesus. That can be the words of anybody. But enlightenment is not something, a thing that another person can give you. It is not bound to a Guru or another person, something that only he has and that he 'passes on' or shares with others.
It is nice to read from you and I think our thoughts are at the base not too different from each other. I might write another blog post about this question as it is very interesting.
by Swami Balendu on December 7, 2011 at 10:32:00 AM
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Sex

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Equality

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Spiritual

We need to integrate the worldly and material life with spirituality.

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Feelings

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Love

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Ego

It is the ego of believing that you are perfect which kills all your happiness in what you do.

Beauty

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Truth

Truth is not an experience. You can know truth and you can live truth but you cannot experience truth.

Relationship

Don’t bring business talk everywhere. Stop it, at the latest when you go into the bedroom. No business is allowed there anymore, just love and the relationship of you and your partner.

Fear

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Decision

Sometimes you can either go left or right and there is no way in the middle. Follow your heart. No decision makes the world stand still, everything will go on, no matter which way you go.

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Attachment

If you can enjoy giving joy to somebody else, it is detachment!

Happiness

If you are not happy, how can you make someone else happy? You need to have what you want to give. If you want to give love, you must have love.

Money

Earning money is an art. Saving money is a bigger art. Spending money is the biggest art. You cannot enjoy money until you spend it. Let this energy move.

Sharing

In western culture sharing is not important. People divide and own. This is mine and that is yours. This is my car; that is your house. It is the ego of owning something. There is too much individuality. Share with others!

Emotions

Words have limits. Love and Emotions are endless.

Gurus

Religion is like politics. It is a dictatorship with the Guru or leader being the dictator setting the rules. Start a spiritual revolution and come out of this suppression. Go towards real spirituality, towards democracy, where your voice is being heard.

Religion

Sometimes religion is like poison. Look at these people who gather others around themselves, making up their own ‘religion’ by interpreting some scripture in their own way and create rules. It steals the freedom of the mind. You need to know yourself what is right for you and everybody has different ideas of what is good or bad, right or wrong.

Followers

I don’t like the word ‘follower’ or ‘disciple’. Guru simply means teacher, so if you have the need for a teacher, a guru, why don’t you call yourself student? Rather than being a follower who follows blindly like a sheep, you should be a student, eager to learn more, enthusiastic for getting more knowledge and experience.

Expectations

We often live for others, trying to make them happy by being how they want us to be. We want to wear a mask of what we are not. But you cannot make everyone happy! We have had this experience hundreds of times but still we do the same again and again. Be original and who you are.

Respect

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Ego

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Negativity

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Guilt

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Self-Confidence

Get the self-confidence to get out of the habits of comparing and pretending to be someone else. Love yourself, as you are. Accept whoever you are, respect your feelings of what you want to do and what you don’t want to do and love! Then your mind will be free from the worry and you will realize that others do love you as you are.

Children

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Love

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Happiness

Don’t be shy to show a little gesture if you think it will make someone happy.

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Silence

Silence is very necessary. It is a jewel of life. Most of our energy is consumed by talking. Be silent and save it.

Gurus

All Gurus like to say ‘Money is bad and you should not keep it. Give it to me.’ That is how they are rich. Is that their wisdom?

Closeness

Love cannot grow if you don’t have closeness. Sometimes it is very hard to get close to someone. Sometimes there is physical closeness but no closeness of the heart, sometimes the mind is close but nothing else. You cannot establish a strong relationship if you don’t accept full closeness.

Pets

We create an animal for our entertainment and give it pain for the rest of its life. This is not taking care of nature, this is not how we should live. We should think more of the animal than of us. Does the animal like living like this? Can I give the animal everything that it would have in free nature, too?

Sexual desire is natural in a healthy body and mind. Not having sexual interest is a sign that something is not right.

Judging

People who judge often have an inferiority complex and believe others judge them. If you are in your full love to yourself, you don't need to judge others.

Fear

If someone wants to help you, find out whether he tries to make you afraid or if he gives you love and helps you through compassion and being with you. In this love you can heal, fear cannot heal you.

Emotions

It is normal to have ‘negative’ emotions like anger, sadness or jealousy. Allow them, accept them and let them go. If you fight and struggle you will suffer more. Find a reason to be happy again

Real Sadhus have fully renounced from worldly life and don’t ask money of tourists!

Trust

When you trust someone, it has to be blind trust. Either you trust or you don't. There is nothing in between, it is always hundred percent.

Make-up

Some women feel ugly without make-up. Your outer appearance can strengthen your confidence for a few moments but you know exactly who you are inside. Learn to face your originality. Accept yourself. See that you are beautiful just as you are. Real beauty comes from inside.

Victim

Many people try with force and effort to keep happiness away because they want to be victims. They are always sad and hurt, no matter what happens.

God

Never feel like a sinner. God does not punish you, he loves you.

Gurus

Religious leaders act as if God is their property and they are the ones to distribute the connection. But they are not the brokers of God. You don’t need to pay them commission to establish the connection. You can just dial in yourself.

Ego

There is a thin line in between healthy pride and too much ego. Everybody needs some ego and everybody should be proud of himself. Without ego or pride you cannot survive. You cannot exist without ego because you need your ego to identify yourself.

The western system fails – it calculates money but emotions have no space in that equation.

Change

Places and times change and we need to keep our mind flexible so that we can leave old rules and traditions behind.

Why would God want women to be worth less than men? If men can read a book that you consider holy, why would women not read it, too? Why is it a sign of impurity when they go through their cycle, the most natural process on earth which makes life possible? There is nothing wrong in believing in the good aspects of different religions. Female suppression is however one of those aspects that can happily be left behind. Gender equality and fairness is something that you don’t need a religion to teach you.

Self-Esteem

Low self-esteem lets people worry about what others think of them. Don't try to be perfect in your action and reaction. You are perfect as you are.

Prejudice

Keep an open mind and don't decide how something will be before it happens. In this way you keep yourself from having fun and being happy. Let it happen and then decide. It is more fun!

Don’t play a role but simply be yourself. Take off any mask that you might have been wearing because of someone’s expectation.

You are not done once you have felt you found yourself. This is you today but who will you be tomorrow?

Friend

Real friendships get more and more beautiful the older they get. Keep them alive and enjoy the age of your friendships.

Rules

I do not like rules. I said many times that we are always living in rules but we should make it a rule to break one rule daily. But that should be your decision and not controlled by anyone else.

Devotion

Whatever you do, offer it to God. You are not acting, whatever you do is for God and from God. Put your heart and love in what you do and enjoy doing it.

Whatever you are jealous about, do not fight the feeling, it will only make it worse.

Body

Everybody has a heart and a soul. The body is the temple of our soul, in which it lives and we should be very respectful with it. We should not make an exhibition with it and we should not have rules to hide it. Both is not right and if you do one of both, you are disrespecting your body.

Identity

Why do we need to pretend to be who we are not?

Meditation can go long ways in giving you mental discipline. This discipline can help you realize what you can do to feel good in your body.

Bad luck or good luck are simply a manipulation of your mind, a psychological effect for those who believe in it.

This caste system is part of the Hindu religion and comes from religion. So the same religion that you admire and try to imitate is dividing people into higher and lower persons.

Scriptures

The scriptures of any religion, culture or country can be written by very intelligent people of old times and we can see them as great literature but they should not be taught to children as ideals of how to behave though. They are fiction and many of them are full of blood and violence, creating an illusion for children that this behavior could be religious and good.

Knowledge

Bookish knowledge only creates confusion

If you feel you are overweight and you are unhappy with it, do something against it! You are the one who has control over your mind and who can shape your body. Take your responsibility and start.

Feelings

Let your feelings flow. It is so simple but can be very difficult. Society taught us to suppress our feelings and tears are seen as weak. Let it flow. When you are sad, please cry. When you are happy, please laugh. Be proud of your feelings and of who you are! Let them flow and open your heart to the love that is flowing between us all.

Religion

I always believe that anything that causes fear and makes people worried and afraid is not right. You should give people trust, faith, love and compassion.

Respect

When you feel that a person is not respectful towards you, remember that he probably doesn’t even feel any respect for himself, so it is difficult to feel it for you.

Love what you do and you will spend most time of your life being happy!

Followers

Real followers always need someone to follow. When they get disappointed by the person they are following, they search for another one.

Love

If someone has trust and love, they can see God in a sculpture or statue, too. It is the power of their belief and love.

Happiness

Everyone who really loves you wants you to be happy and strong and stable in your happiness. It is difficult to have stable happiness if you cannot have a stable opinion because all the time you actually worry in which direction you have to change your opinion now!

Negativity

If you are focused on negativity, you will attract negativity. You should be focused on positivity, then you will attract positive things for your life. It can be difficult to rebuild positivity but it is necessary in order to be happy.

Food

Make one meal a day a meeting point, a ritual for the whole family together.

Priests and organizers are like agents. religion is their business and images of gurus and icons are their products. They have to sell something and get income to make their living and if they can attract people to buy at their tents by selling those pictures, it is fine for them. It is human worship and it is wrong.

God is not a Hindu, Christian, Jew, Muslim or Buddhist. He does not have a certain form, shape or colour. The same God that lives in you also lives in me and will be there even if all religions vanish from this world.

Ego

In western cultures family relations and love relations are often destroyed by ego, when all energy is spent on destroying, creating problems and separation.

Decision

Life teaches every human. Let it teach your child, too! You are there for bigger problems, decisions and topics, you can protect when it is really necessary, but let your child face circumstances of life in which it learns of life. How will it learn otherwise?

Some people who believe in reincarnation neglect their own responsibilities. There is always a very convenient excuse: that happens because of my past life!

The idea of sex with the guru is fascinating - it is sex in a spiritual wrapper.

Siddhis are not real. Don't be afraid, nobody can do anything to you!

Inner changes need time, even in a fast food culture.

Stop running behind achievements and appreciation from outside. Appreciate yourself, love yourself and take time for yourself.

Sharing Happiness is more important than sharing Sadness.

Honesty

We need to learn to say no instead of having a formal attitude that keeps us from being honest and expressing what we really want.

Positivity

Fall in love often. And not only with people, no, fall in love with a smell, fall in love with a colour, love the moment. Love the way how a person talks, love how friendly your neighbour is, love it that your body feels healthy. This will help you to live in a positive way.

Perfectionism

Perfectionism is perfect if there is no comparison.

Forgiveness

Forgiveness is the biggest jewel of human life. Everybody needs to have this in their heart, otherwise you burn yourself on the fire of your anger. You need to go through your emotions, but then forgive without hurting the other one. Don't keep that in your heart. Learn to forgive.

Relationship

Physical closeness is the key for successful relationships.

Attachment

If you are attached to something, you cannot leave expectations and your ego. Attachment always raises expectations.

Rules

I don’t like rules but I like discipline. It makes your will power strong.

Addiction

Addiction is mainly a question of the mind. People can spend half a day on a flight without any cigarette but on the ground they cannot survive an evening without smoking. If you can spend half a day without it, it is also possible a full day, a week, a month, a year or the rest of your life. It is a question of the mind and the determination. 

Religious make-up and getup doesn’t make a person holy.

If something is different than you thought, accept it and see the beauty of the difference.

Decision

You can decide yourself if you want to be happy or sad. You are the one who decides to be angry, to be annoyed or to be sad. Some people decide to be in hate. But it is always you.

Victim

Don't enjoy being a victim. Don't keep your problems like companions but let them go.

Why do you strive to look the opposite of how you look like? Be yourself and love who you are. Love comes from inside, from the heart and from the soul.

Whenever you criticize something that is morally wrong and someone reacts strongly, it is a sign that he or she knows what you are talking about, has acted in the way you criticize and feels guilty about.

The philosophy of reincarnation forces you to live in past or future.

Spiritual

Everybody is spiritual in his own way. Even if you don’t go into a temple or church or are not sure about god, you are spiritual if you believe in love.

Meditation

It is your awareness of the moments. When you are hurrying, you are just focused on what you are doing, to do it as quick as possible and the moments go by without you noticing them. When you are waiting, you are really aware of each moment, you feel each moment, each breath that you take. Both ways can be meditation.

God

If you don’t receive what you wished for, accept that it is God’s wish for you not to have it. He does what is best for you.

Children

Video games taught children that violence and rioting is fun! They learned how it should look like when you break into a store and when they see that it works, they get greedy and steal mobile phones, game consoles, electronics and more. I think violent video games have encouraged teenagers to see this all as fun!

You are not qualified to have a baby if you cannot give time and love to that little being.

Cheating

Cheating never works and never makes you happy. Talk with your partner about it instead. Show your husband or wife that you cherish the love in between you and that you won’t do this step that others have done in your situation.

Love

Sometimes the mind creates an illusion in which true love cannot be seen. However love never dies and if you make an effort and don’t give importance to your ego, you can see clearly and find the love which was always there.

You need to learn to be happy and satisfied. You should be healthy and feel happy and good with your body.

Forgiveness

Forgiveness is the jewel of life. If we are able to forgive, we are rich. If you can forgive someone, he can also realize his mistake. When you realize a mistake you will take care not to repeat it.

Sharing

You share everything with everybody and everybody shares everything with you. Just out of love. In this case the source is love, not ego. When you want to share your happiness with others and want to share other peoples’ pain, sharing is a great and positive thing.

Religion is imagination and interpretation but also wants to control. That is why people start turning away from religions. They are told which way to go but they want freedom! Let people believe what they wish to believe. Always choose freedom and love.

Love

Enlightenment is being in love.

Spiritual

Religion and spirituality don’t need a Guru. It is the way that you go and what you accept in life, it is nothing to learn, it is just implementing your honesty into life. It is love and you don’t need to learn love. If you are in love and you are honest, you are already spiritual.

Friend

Even if your thoughts do not match, you can still be friends. Even if you disagree in a hundred of points, you can be friends. You need to agree at least on this one point though: you trust each other and have love for each other.

Scriptures

Scriptures were written by normal men. It was their experience but your experience can be very different. With time everything changes. If your experience is different than from what the Bible or the Gita tells you, why don’t you believe in yourself? Why don’t you trust your experience?

We need to stop religion from spreading the superstition that there could be a ghost or spirit possessing a person.

Yoga

We should not say doing Yoga, but being in Yoga. When your soul wants to connect and unite with its source.

When there are no formalities necessary anymore, you know that it is a close friendship and love.

Religion

I cannot understand how anybody or any religion can see woman as second-rate. A woman brings you to this earth, how can she be less worth? Without her, how could you exist? 

Meditation

Meditation is a good way to discover your feelings and to come from head to heart.

Sex

Sexual feeling is just innocent and a part of your body. With your body growing, your feelings also get more mature with age.

Sects

Sects go to extremes - Either lots of sex or no sex at all!

Judging

If you made it your habit not to ever judge anything and anybody, you would get psychological problems as you would not be able to make independent decisions on your own and would never know which way to go.

Spiritual

Spirituality is not a hobby like playing the piano for which you sometimes have time and sometimes not. Spirituality doesn’t cost time. It should be natural. Why do you think you are only spiritual if you practice at least one hour of meditation per day and lots of Yoga exercises? You can be spiritual in eating, cooking and sleeping, too.

Soul, energy, love, essence, prana and god are synonyms for me.

Sex

The push of sexual force onto your mind can even make angry and violent. That is why it is good to let sexual energy flow in body and soul, not in the mind.

Food

Be aware while cooking and eating that you are doing something important. Love your food and don't waste it.

Friend

Give value to your relations and the people around you. See and feel their love and love them back. Store their love in your heart. Care for friendship, care for your relations, care for love.

Whenever a scripture of any religion recommends physical punishment, it was written by a man who enjoyed that women and children cannot resist and are physically weaker.

Freedom

If you see the typical lifestyle in the west, it is all about freedom. Freedom there does not usually mean freedom of the mind, of decision and independence of negativity but often means physical distance and financial independence.

Reduce your Stress-Levels! You are not responsible for everyone else!

There is a difference in between friends and customers. Customers want something from you. Friends want you.

As a guru, you can be very respected and holy one day but the next day you can be a nobody. It can happen quickly and for no reason at all. It does not take any time for the respect and love of followers to vanish.

Freedom

I want to give the one I love full control over me. Only then I will feel full freedom because I don’t even have to think for myself.

Religion

Isn’t it crazy how religion is often only a way to manipulate people? Just tell people often enough that something is God’s wish and they will believe it!

Happiness

People lose their happiness in the effort of keeping others happy although it is impossible to keep everybody happy. Everybody has their own ego and that will clash with each other, no matter what you do. Make yourself happy first.

Self-Confidence

Don’t be overprotective. Lack of self-esteem, indecision and also problems with getting into company of others are the consequences. Don’t overprotect, give freedom and let them make their experiences. They will shape the world of tomorrow, so don’t try to press them into your world. Let them free.

Acceptance

Accept yourself as you are. You can follow a good and healthy example but don't go in any competition. You are fine as you are.

The problem in a discussion with religious people is that they do not only think their belief is the best but quote their scriptures as proof in their arguments and then get confused and can't believe it when somebody doesn't accept their quotations as the truth.

Don't buy in shops where you see children working. Ask the shop owner, get him to think about it and let him know you don’t buy there because of the child he has employed.

Love

You cannot buy anybody’s love. If you want love, give love. The world of love is very different from this material world. Not even a millionaire can buy someone’s love. Maybe their body but not their love.

Give your child your love over your touch. You create a deep trust in this baby that you will be there whatever happens.

Happiness

When you are happy you can make others happy! Like this you can spread happiness. Give something to others when you are satisfied yourself. That will increase your happiness even more.

Vegetarian

You are what you eat. If you eat meat, you take the animal's energy into your body and thus people become more and more like animals.

Happiness

Real prosperity is happiness that is not disturbed by a fluctuation of numbers. When you are happy you should have a big generous heart which will try to make others happy.

Rituals

We don’t need rituals to find God and God will not be especially happy if we do rituals for him. You can find God through love and by being in love, you do the best service to him that you can.

Relationship

A successful relationship comes from devotion, not from ego and expectations. Leave your expectations behind and accept and respect the other one. In order to accept, respect and love in a relationship, you definitely need to accept, respect and love yourself.

No Guru or master can tell you who you are because we are all unique. You have to find the answer yourself.

If you embarrass your partner in public, it is a sign of disharmony in relationship.

Belief

Whatever your belief is, give your child as much freedom as possible to decide on his own. If you force a child into one belief, you don’t give its mind the possibility to develop in its own way.

Feelings

People cannot express what they feel. They often do not even really know whether they like something or not. They look at their neighbours and see what their reaction is. Then they can imitate it. Easy.

Change

If you experience something, don’t be shy to change your opinion, even if it is the opposite of what you thought before. Change if you believe it is necessary to change, otherwise it will cost you your happiness. If you change when it is right to change, you will see that new doors open for a better future.

Guilt

You want to live in guilt. If you do not want to, you can come out of it. You can just leave it and decide not to be in guilt. But being in this feeling is easier than making the decision of not being in guilt.

Create your perception with a free mind. Prejudiced ideas of other people's advices can prevent amazing experiences.

Beauty

Beauty shines from within - not through Make-up.

God

God is the soul of our souls and lives in everybody in the form of love.

Body

Teach your children that there is nothing wrong if you get wrinkles when you get older and that grey hair doesn’t take any of your beauty. Teach them to love themselves. Help them feel good in their body just as it is.

Yoga

How much would Patanjali, the author of the Yoga Sutras 3000 years ago, charge you for becoming his franchisee and using his name and Sutras?

Prediction

Human is just a puppet in a big play. You think you are in charge but there is something bigger than you. Nature, god, the universe, however you want to call it. Even if you know your body, you don’t have full control over it. Nobody knows when, what can happen. Nobody can predict anything.

God

If you want to get in touch with god, why do you need an agent for that? Make direct contact through love.

The thought of independence and freedom made people lonely.

If someone opens your eyes about a bad habit, an injustice from your side or a simple mistake, be happy about it! Be ready to change yourself for the better!

Relationship

Many times relationships fail because there is no physical closeness. A relationship doesn’t work over phone or over internet. A lot of people try but our human nature is that you need someone close to you for a real connection.

Happiness

Happiness should be our normal state of mind.

Religion

You cannot buy blessings with a donation to a temple. You cannot buy luck and a good destiny like rice on the market. You have to create it yourself!

Ego

Ego can make you blind so that you are not able to see the truth which will affect your decisions.

Acceptance

Please don't live with a different identity. The creation is wonderful as it is, accept that. If you do not accept god's creation you do not accept your own soul. Stop fighting against your true self! Self-confidence can only come after self-acceptance.

Love

God is love and love is God. The definition that you give for ‘God’ you can also give for love. God is infinite. Love too. There is no end and no limit. Love cannot be finished, it is simply impossible.

Trust

Unconditional trust and unconditional respect are the fertile earth on which love grows and gets strong. Doubts destroy this base. If there are doubts, there is no trust and love cannot grow.

Honesty

Be honest with your feelings. If the other one likes you or not, it is okay.

Be yourself, live your true feelings, don’t hesitate to show them even if you think they are negative!

Rules

I only follow one rule: Break one rule daily. And I believe that we need to get rid of all other rules if we want to live free and with open heart.

Honour is something related to your dignity, to a straight and honest way of living and not related only to your sexuality. Why would a woman be dishonoured if she had sex with the one she loves even if they are not married?

Trust

We do not want to be controlled. And if we don’t want to be controlled, why do we have the wish to control somebody? Trust is the foundation of any relation or love. Trust and leave the idea of controlling your partner!

Lie

People often lie because they don’t know their feelings and try to please everyone. Be aware of what you feel and what you say and only tell the truth!

Self-Confidence

You are the creator of your world. If you want to make yourself small, you can, but you can also realize your strength and see that we are all human, all the same. There is one love and one god for all of us.

Relationship

Relationships are like hand-painted pictures. Every picture is different and it takes time until you have discovered every small detail that the painter has added.

Change

If someone refuses to change while you yourself are developing, it can happen that you grow apart. At that point of life, you meet new people who can go along with your new view on the world. It is fine and a part of the change which we accepted in our lives.

Smoking

You can stop smoking right now; it is only your willpower, only your wish and only your decision. Promise yourself not to touch any cigarette in your life anymore even if you die because of it. I can guarantee that you will not die without smoking.

Responsibility

You are not responsible for everything and everybody. Relax, lean back and watch what others are doing. It is fine, enjoy whatever comes!

You can fall in love with anybody, from any caste. Love cannot be controlled. It doesn’t see higher or lower castes!

Positivity

God is there for you in every moment and he does what is best for you.

Relationship

In my relationship I want to give the command of my life and my heart to the one I love. Now you can guide me because I know you, I trust you, in your love, you will do best for me.

Food

Our body is the temple of our soul. Our soul, our god lives in it and we need to respect it and take care of it. Listen to it and only eat when you are hungry. Take care of what you eat, eat healthy food, eat vegetarian. Your stomach is not a garbage box. Fill it with nice things, not with junk food or fast food.

Addiction

When shopping becomes an addiction like gambling, when your house gets more and more full, when you walk in the city and realize that you already have everything in those shops full of useless things, it is time to rethink on what you spend your money.

Don’t love with the condition that the other one acts the way you wish.

Freedom

If you want to follow a Guru, a master, a sect leader or any kind of belief, don’t have your children affected, too! Give your children the possibility to decide themselves. Show them the normal world, let them develop properly with the full capacity of their mind to be critical, to think about everything themselves and with full emotional abilities, too! Give your child the freedom and the possibility of a healthy, normal lifestyle.

Sometimes the outcome is simply not in our control, so stop thinking about what could have happened if you had taken another decision.

Prayers

The aim of each prayer is getting close to God. A prayer can be in any form. Different religions suggest different ways of praying and those who did not learn any way of praying, like children, have their own prayers.

Feelings

Don’t worry what others think to find out what you feel for yourself.

Food

Respect your food. Your stomach is not a garbage box. You are doing something important when you are eating.

Ego

Let your ego dissolve in love. Do not show with ego how much you did for the other person not while doing and not after having done.

Avoiding Sex won't help fixing Relationship Issues!

Even many educated Westerners are interested in materializing gold and thus fooled by Gurus promising fake powers.

When women exhibit their body to show freedom and independence, they reduce themselve to the body and contribute to gender inequality.

Vegetarian

People have to develop their consciousness and stop killing animals to fill their stomach. They have a soul like us and god is in them, too.

Healing

Real healing power is in each of you yourself. The right time, the right company, a loving touch, a hug and sharing words and emotions with the right person can help your healing process

Presence

Trust in yourself and have confidence. You don't need anyone who makes you afraid with stories of a past life or makes promises for the future. Live in presence and have trust in your love.

Life

Please do what you enjoy. Enjoy your life! It is too short not to enjoy it. And you can have the trust that even if you do not know what it will be good for in your future, if you stop worrying you will see that there will be the right thing at the right time for you.

Smoking

Don’t plan to stop smoking tomorrow or at some other time. If you say this is the last cigarette, the one after it will also be the last one, and another one and another one. It will never be the last one. You have to make the decision now.

Religion

Where poverty is widespread, people believe more in religions. They are uneducated but they have hopes and dreams, based on God. Some gurus take advantage of their dreams and suck the little money that they have out of them. Let’s spread education so that they can really live their dreams.

Religion

Why do religions make people afraid? If the rules that they put up made sense, they wouldn't need to make others afraid, others would understand it on their own and follow them!

Experience

If you make relationships and break up after one week, I call it experience, not love. It is your search, looking for love. So many people can come and go, an ongoing process until you find love. But love never finishes.

Sex

Possessiveness comes when the mind is involved in sex. If our sexuality is on the level of spirit or soul, possessiveness will not appear.

Religion has created social structure - and now we have the ‘untouchable’ caste!

Cheating

If you did a mistake, the first part of the solution is already that you realize it and then accept it. Don't try to find an excuse but turn around and walk the other way. Simply, honestly accept that you made a mistake and for the future commit to live an honest life which doesn’t cause pain for others and later for yourself.

Silence

Save your energy by not talking when it is not really necessary.

Relationship

Acceptance and respect are needed for keeping a relationship alive. Your perception of your partner must be clean of doubts. Nothing is bad or good, keep in mind that it is only your perception.

Forgiveness

If you forgive yourself a mistake, forgive the other one if he does the same. Forgiveness will give you satisfaction and peace.

Expectations

Any kind of disappointment comes from expectations.

Gurus

How can all those Swamis and Gurus give liberation of attachment to material when they themselves are so attached to gold and money?

Perfectionism

The wish of being perfect is driven by the wish to be an expert. Leave this wish and get into your mind that there is always a possibility to do it better, to learn something. Improvement is always possible but you are fine just as you are!

Responsibility

Take your own responsibility without relying on others or thinking about other people’s judgment.

Positivity

There is always something good in everything.

Come out of your system, sect or religion to see what is wrong with it.

Cooking

If you cook with much love, you will taste the love in your food.

Don’t be afraid to act differently. It won’t make you an outsider if those around you really love you. You have to be honest in order to feel good about yourself.

Experience

The explanation of why healing works is not important. Important is your experience.

Spiritual

If you live in love, you are spiritual.

Vegetarian

There are two kinds of animals: carnivores, like lions and tigers which eat meat and herbivores, like cows and horses which eat plants. Our whole body structure, our metabolism and our jaw are more similar to that of cows than of tigers. Our teeth are perfect for grinding grains and vegetables and not for tearing apart animal flesh.

Happiness

You have everything that you need now! You have every reason to be happy! Be happy and love your life!

Anger

Gyan Yogis say that there is no duality. Everything is one and everyone is the same because god is in everybody. So if God is in you, in me and in everyone around, against whom do you want to direct your aggression? Anger can only exist in duality. When everything is God, then everything is the same, everyone is love.

Happiness

Being happy is the biggest worship of god. I don’t think that God would be more happy about any other ritual or method of worshipping.

Judging

‘You should not judge’ is often used by masters and Gurus to keep their disciples and followers from questioning what they are doing.

Acceptance

If your pain is chronic and incurable, accept it and accept it with love.

Religion kills. Fasting can take the life of an unborn baby.

Prediction

Nobody can predict the future, nobody knows it. The future is written in the stars but you cannot read and translate it. The mystery of what will come next has its own beauty, .

Respect

Love never really finishes but respect can finish easily. Don’t let this happen!

Ego

People often make things more complicated than they are so that they can satisfy their ego by managing something difficult. If you want, you can do that and make everything difficult. Or you can leave your ego and just do it the easy way.

Relationship

In a relationship acceptance is necessary. If we cannot accept the other on how he is, we will not be able to maintain a successful and loving relationship.

Parenting

If you only ate when you were hungry, you would never have a problem with obesity. Adults and also children get hungry naturally. Don’t eat and don’t let them eat for their entertainment, from boredom or from hunger in their thoughts and eyes.

Friend

True friends stay when your philosophy and belief change.

Words are not the only way to communicate. A look in someone’s eyes can express feelings in a much deeper way.

Feelings

Sensitivity is a jewel of humanity. If there was no sensitivity, everybody would be just like stone!

Ego

Both, good and bad Karma binds you. Offer whatever you do. In this way you will be safe of the disappointment that comes with a bad result and safe of the ego of having achieved a good result.

God

A prayer is a way of getting closer to God. So it is good to pray, but it should be out of love, not because you have to pray. Pray with your heart.

Never give up and never lose hope. You can always make a change.

Experiences are for experiencing, not for speaking about them.

Relationship

Making a relation is easy. Breaking a relation is also easy. But to maintain a relation will need devotion, love and trust.

Religion

Going to the temple or to church regularly does not make you religious. You are religious when you have compassion in your heart for helping others, when you wish them well and give your effort to make this wish come true.

Rituals

If you are in love with God, you don’t have to ‘do’ meditation, it takes place itself. You are in love without doing any ritual. You also don’t need to do rituals to please your God, he will feel your love in every moment. There is no need of any special prayer, any certain Mantra if you are in love with God.

Happiness

Making an effort to make your loved one happy makes you happy. This is love: you want to make your beloved happy.

After Import in the West, Tantra became red, white, black and sexy!

Vegetarian

Vegetarianism starts at home. Show your kids how to caress animals, your cat just like farm cows! Why can you eat a cow, not a cat?

Presence

Why do we kill the joy of the presence with thinking of the past or worrying about the future?

You can trust people only when you know them and you can only get to know them if they show what they feel. So make a start and show what you feel.

Decision

Let your sons and daughters take their own decisions and carry the consequences. Don’t control every little detail but let them get the taste of being adult.

If someone rapes a girl, how come her honour is gone? It should be the other way around! He loses his honour by doing this crime!

Spirituality is very individual, not institutional. Even if you don’t go into a temple or church, you are spiritual, if you believe in love.

Change

How can you expect a change from others if you cannot change yourself?

Healing

Everybody is a healer because everybody has the love inside himself to heal. We all are unique but we all are one.

Guilt

Your decision of not feeling guilty also shows your forgiveness. When you are feeling guilty it means you cannot forgive yourself. Accept your mistake, say sorry and leave the guilt.

You will never be alone if you believe in truth.

Relationship

Please do not hurt others by saying what you do not mean! Don't think you can finish a relationships from one day to the other! It will not let you come to peace!

Nobody is perfect. But in the eyes of someone who loves you, you are. You don’t stop loving someone because of his faults.

Gurus

Be your own master. We have enough to do with mastering ourselves and don’t need anybody else whom we can master.

In India you can learn about love in between family members, about supporting each other and living together in peace and freedom.

Sex

When you hear that someone says after the first night ‘It was really a good night, I had wonderful sex’, they did not necessarily do anything special. It is amazing because sex itself is such a great thing. It is not the quality of the woman and the man, it is the quality of sex itself.

Happiness

We are mostly happy when we take but true happiness is when you enjoy giving.

Expectations

Why do we want to change somebody? Why can’t we change ourselves? And if we cannot even change ourselves, then how can we expect any change in somebody else?

Love

Love should always be unconditional. If there is any condition, it is not really love. If someone leaves because of a condition you don't fulfil, you do not have to feel guilty or have an inferiority complex. Those who really love you, love you how you are, not because of something or a certain quality.

Rules

If people forget the sense of rules, they are just rules without a background which leads to a blind following of rules instead of the understanding of life. See why rules are there and understand their meaning.

Truth

How would you describe spirituality? And what can you get from reading someone’s experience? For you, spirituality can be very different. And that is truth. The truth is not an experience.

Magic

You learn in school how long it takes for light to travel from the sun to us and how much power it takes for a rocket to go to the moon. But still you believe that any man has the power to make gold out of nothing or harm you with his black magic?

Hope

You need hope to believe, to survive and live. This whole world and everybody keeps on breathing because of hope.

Body

You are more than a body and not only your body. People should love you not because of your body. Your real freedom would be if you did not use your body as a medium to attract people’s attention.

The fact that millions of people follow something is no proof that this action is good. Many people followed Hitler, too, but you cannot say that he was right!

Children

With children it is easy to have an emotional connection because they understand the language of emotions better than the language of intellect. If you talk to them with intelligent words, definitions and facts, they won’t understand you. If you reach out to them with love and happiness, you establish an emotional bridge in between you and them.

Attachment

Try to be attached to as little as possible, leave old things, throw them out and give them to someone who needs them more than you.

Devotion

It is the path of devotion and love when you can say to your God ‘Wherever I am, whoever I am, I am yours.’ Then you have surrendered yourself and offered yourself to God. For this you need closeness.

Acceptance

Accept your feelings, accept yourself. Only if you accept yourself you can respect yourself. Be proud of who you are and what you have inside! Each of these steps is important because only if you respect yourself you can love yourself. And only with this love to yourself you can give love to others and receive love from others. Then you are open for this universal love. Accept yourself, respect yourself and love yourself!

Ego

Increase your ego until you say ‘I am god’. I am that. You are that source that you come from, you are that! Tat Tvam Asi. But not only you, everyone around you, too!

India does not need entertainment events that cost Billions of Dollars while every minute five poor Indians die of hunger and about half of Indian’s children below five are malnourished.

It does not show intelligence if you make an easy topic difficult to understand but if you can present a difficult topic in easy words.

Why are so many Gurus and Swamis in India extremely rich while it is difficult for many normal persons to get a full stomach?

We are destroying this world in our egoism and nature shows us exactly that. We need to think of the generations that come after us and not leave them a big mess just because we felt too comfortable and were too lazy to clean up and do something different.

Judging

There would be no development if nobody ever judged. You would always accept everything as it is. We need to judge.

Never skip a reason for a celebration!

God

You cannot bargain with God and give a big donation for a big wish and a few coins for a small one. You give it to the temple, not to God. God doesn’t care about money.

Happiness

If a player only enjoyed playing if he won the match, he would not be very happy in his profession. Don’t let your mind stop you from enjoying as much you can!

Act with the knowledge of what happened in the past and with an idea of what you want to achieve but be in presence, be here and now.

There are no Siddhis or supernatural powers. I challenge anybody to show me those powers and their effect, good or bad. Can you tell me the lottery numbers or can you kill me only by the force of your mind? Try it.

Meditation

Anything can be meditation if you are there with your full awareness.

Negativity

Negative people are not bothered by negativity because they are already full of negativity. Negativity more strongly affects positive people, trying to make them negative, too.

Your wishes create God.

Meditation

Meditation has become a sign of being spiritual or religious. Don't do it regularly however simply because your religion tells you to. Such a ritual often becomes a habit and loses its benefit.

Change

Change is normal and just a sign that you are alive and in the flow of life. We always change for the better when we make a conscious change and decide to change along with times. We are changing in every second and it is better to accept this change than to fight it.

Celibacy

Religion tells you that you are allowed to laugh and cry, to feel hungry and thirsty but not to feel horny. Is this not a natural feeling? How can you live normally and naturally while being disrespectful to one of the most natural feelings in this world? Celibacy is the most unnatural concept that you can think of.

Love

Love is when you want to enjoy and laugh together, when you want to smile and celebrate together but also cry together and give each other support in difficult times.

No culture or country is perfect - don't feel offended by criticism!

Honesty

You say something else than you think and feel. And you do something completely different. You don’t do what you think and you don’t think what you say. You don’t say what you do and you don’t do what you say. These three things are separate from each other although they should be same: our inside, our thoughts and feelings, our talk and our actions.

Equality

People put a label on everything, on themselves and everybody else, creating limitations! We are all the same, have the same soul and live on the same planet.

God

Many people only say their prayers with rituals, when they are in temple or church or only pray if they have a mala. Praying with a mala is not wrong but it is not the only way. You don’t need a mala for praying. And you don’t need a church for getting in touch with God.

If you generously spend money for your happiness, donate something for the happiness of others, too! Don’t only give your blessings but actually make a difference! Wealth requires Sensitivity!

Most people think they don’t deserve to be happy.

Game

Don't play for winning but for having fun. The aim is not being better and if you lose, there is no reason to be sad. This is the game. Somebody will lose, somebody will win. A game is there for enjoying. Winning and losing is part of the fun.

Children

Let your children grow up without learning violence in video games. Teach them instead to play with each other, not against each other. Show them that a child of another nation and maybe with another language is just as valuable as they are themselves.

Guilt

We all are human, not god, so we do mistakes. Accept your mistake and leave your ego, then you won't feel guilty. Guilt is created when you do not accept your mistake because of your ego. Don't make yourself feel guilty for making mistakes.

Honesty

Follow your teachings yourself. Your teaching only has power if you live it yourself with your honesty. A smoker cannot give a lecture about the harm of smoking.

Change

When you change yourself, things start changing around you. It works!

Only those who are not respectable can be disrespectful towards others because they don’t know the value of respect themselves.

Feelings

Wouldn’t it be beautiful if we did not lose the value of feelings in the translation into speech? If there was a way how we can express the whole value of the feeling?

Rituals

Does a soul get more comfort by expensive rituals after death?

Women are taught that their guru is God. You do what God says and whatever God says is right and has a deeper meaning. If God asks you to touch his genitals or if he kisses you, there will be a reason. Some gurus even told their favourite female disciples that they were the chosen ones who will receive enlightenment the fastest.

Love

If you really and truly love somebody, why are you eager to possess that person? True love is not about owning.

Soul

Soul is energy, the life in someone, our basic element, which moves us and keeps us alive. When there is no love in a relationship, we say it is dead. When there is no business in a company we say it is dead. Whenever the basic element of something is gone, we call it dead. When our basic element is gone, we are dead. And our soul is our basic element.

Gurus

Guru is not a title, it is a relation like brother or father. Swami is a title for a spiritual person. This is the difference.

Relationship

The key for a successful relationship is to allow your partner to express his feelings the way he wants. Love is not about owning and controling. Give this freedom to the one you love.

Lie

People usually don’t lie because they want to harm someone but to hide their thoughts, to hide their feelings, shortly to hide themselves. It is one of the greatest problems that a person can have: low self-esteem.

Spiritual and esoteric people nowadays believe that the world should be just all love and nothing else, forgetting that 'negative' emotions are necessary for living and developing. They have to be there, they are natural!

Vegetarian

What does it mean if you say ‘I am not 100% vegetarian’, ‘I eat meat only when I go out’, or ‘I only eat fish’? It means you are not a vegetarian at all. You feel guilty about it. You are only eating, not killing, but someone killed for you.

Friend

God can be your friend whom you trust, with whom you can share everything and who can be mother, father, son or daughter to you.

Happiness

If you always only think of the happiness of others, you forget your own happiness. When you have established your own happiness with what you do and with who you are, when you accept your heart, your personality and your own life, then you can help others to find their happiness.

Don't take everything personal!

Don't count the Faults and Mistakes of your loved ones!

Perception

Not any belief is good or bad, no person is good or bad and no place is good or bad. It is only your perception.

Relationship

When you have a physical relation with someone, it brings an emotional connection and an emotional relation requires physical closeness.

Love

You will never get love by begging. You only get love when you give love. Open yourself, find love inside you and spread it.

Religion has lost its purpose. It has no future, the young generation is refusing it and it is slowly dying.

Cheating

You did not tell your partner that you are cheating but you are trying to tell yourself that he or she would be fine with that. Anytime you do that, whenever you cheat your partner, you actually first cheat yourself with this lie.

Charity means giving, not expecting anything in exchange. Give and Take is business. Only giving is charity.

Children

Every child is same and when you have this wish to give love to children, you should share your love with every child, no matter if it is yours or the child of someone else.

Sex

Love can exist without sex but sex has to be with love.

Happiness

If there is no sparkle in life, you don’t like to get up in the morning. If it is like this, change something. Bring love and fun into your life. You are the one who controls your mood. Be happy and enjoy your life, each day! 

Life

Learning is not only for children. Life can always teach you something, your age doesn’t matter. It is wonderful to be curious for something new, something you have not experienced yet.

Prediction

Nobody in the world can tell the future.

Religion

Religion is a firm and strict structure whereas spirituality is soft and flowing. Religion presses into clear and edgy shapes whereas spirituality makes round and soft. Religion comes from the mind and spirituality from the heart.

Love your body also in the process of getting older. Just as a child has its beauty, age also has its own beauty!

Vegetarian

Why do you eat Pig and Cow but not your Dog?

Love

Being happy in the happiness of your beloved is true love.

Relationship

Anger, ego and other emotions sometimes create aggression but think how far you want to let these emotions take you. Who knows, maybe time changes and a bitter relation changes again for the better. Bitter and better is only one letter apart from each other.

Sex

If you have a continued physical relation, the emotional relation will naturally develop by itself.

Beauty

Beauty is not about physical appearance. We are not only the body, there is a soul and a beautiful soul is much more important than figure, colour or shape.

Sharing

Sharing has a double effect: it decreases sadness and increases happiness!

God

Don’t seek God in religious icons or figures. God is love and lives in our heart. If you, in a prayer or mantra, mention the name Jesus, Ram or also Hanuman, it doesn’t mean that you specify a religion you are praying to. You have God in your heart, no matter which name you say with your tongue.

Corruption in religion is worst because the most corrupt people there show themselves as the purest of ideals that everyone else should follow.

Self-Confidence

Judging is good and necessary. Use your general knowledge, your mind, your intelligence and also your feelings. You can ask experts, research on the internet and find out more if needed. Get an opinion and don’t be afraid of others criticizing it. Maybe this fear prevents people from judging, too. Have self-confidence and say what you think is right and what is wrong in your eyes.

Decision

It is always your decision how you want to spend your day and your evening. If you want to be angry or if you want to have fun, the decision is yours!

Religion

If you leave all religions and just surrender yourself to love, you will be free of the feelings of sin and guilt. Love will liberate you. Choose this path and you will be free from fear.

Identity

People often have different faces, for work, for home, for friends and so on. That makes it difficult for you and others to understand you. Just be who you are!

Spiritual

Spirituality does not tell you to break the hearts of others by breaking all bonds. Of course you can go the path of spirituality with the relations that God gave to you. You can take them along on your way instead of breaking their hearts.

Guilt

Guilt is the result of the wish for perfection. You want to be perfect and this mistake proves that you failed, so you carry it around, defending your mistake, blaming others, hiding so that nobody finds out that you are not perfect. Everybody makes mistakes and nobody is perfect!

Cooking

The energy that you have while cooking also goes into the food that you are preparing. Please do not cook when you are angry. Cook when you are in good mood or make your mood good before you start cooking.

Don't remind your children of how much you did for raising them.

Stress

Be relaxed and have fewer expectations on yourself. Look forward Even to things that are important. If you are anxious you will only exhaust yourself with stress which doesn't make anything better.

Love

Love is the only supernatural power that exists and we all have access to it. You just need to open your heart and let it flow.

There is no moment in life in which a light is switched on, like a bulb, and from then on you are an enlightened being that can give enlightenment to others, switching on their inner light bulbs with just a little trick.

Yoga

Hatha Yoga is food for the body, Gyan Yoga is food for the mind and Bhakti Yoga is food for the soul. Like this you get the full package.

Pets

Making pets of animals takes away their natural freedom.

Religion creates feelings of guilt and fear leading to psychological problems.

Love

You cannot tell someone to love but you can be proud of your own love. Love your feelings, love and celebrate your love. You have to love yourself and be proud of the love that you can give to others. Never stop loving yourself in this frustration. At the right time you will meet the right person, there is nothing wrong with you and you don’t need to try stopping your love. Don’t create any guilt. Your love is great.

Don’t sell something you don’t believe in just to make business. Don't become dishonest with your belief.

Relationship

A relationship is something very individual and personal but you definitely need one thing: lots of love.

Belief

Nobody can tell you what you have to believe. Find out yourself what is good and right for you. Trust in your own feelings and listen to your inner voice.

Talking about love and falling in love are two different things. Do you remember when you fell in love for the first time, how happy you were and how you could not stop smiling? :)

Belief

Belief and religion is a personal thing. Religious leaders of any religion, be that Hinduism, Islam, Christianity or any other religion, have no right to tell people what to believe.

Religion

Flexibility is Hinduism's biggest quality and its biggest drawback!

Eating is fun, no doubt, but it is not fun anymore when it becomes a habit.

Religion

Religion often has the effect of poison: it kills people, it separates them, it creates hate among them. Human is made by god and religion is made by man. God did not create people with different religions, he made us all the same.

Stress

Our stress is created by thinking with ego: I have to do this, I have to be good in that and I should be perfect in another thing. Actually it would be good if I was perfect in everything! Of course this creates stress! We put such high demand on ourselves and on what we should be able to do and to achieve.

Knowledge

Knowledge you can get without limit. But getting knowledge and knowing is something different. You can collect knowledge or you can get to know. There is a difference between talking about love and falling in love.

If you see a friend being pulled into a sect or a group that has bad practices, tell him what you think about it but in the end you have to let him believe what he wants to believe.

Devotion

Turn your desire into love, on the path of devotion. Surrender yourself and you will see how desires get less. In this way desire is transformed and purified.

Sects

Do not steal the childhood of your children by raising them in a sect.

Money

Some people love money and collect it but do not enjoy it. Nobody can take money with him when he leaves this world! So why to collect? Enjoy!

Why do you fight!? If you need God, he exists for you. If you don’t, he doesn’t exist for you.

You cannot share closeness, intimacy and trust with hundreds of people at the same time.

Self-Confidence

You are loveable, lovely and loving. You don’t need to do any change to yourself to please another person. You don’t need to play a role or wear a mask. This world is so big and there are so many different people in this world that it is normal if a few don’t agree with you or don’t like you. Stop comparing and just be yourself.

Self-Confidence

No matter who you are and what you are doing, in the movie of your life you will always have the main role, you will be the hero. Stop trying to be someone who you are not or different and better than others, just be yourself! You are not greater or worse, higher or lower than anybody else. God made you perfectly fine, just as you are.

Love

Love is the most therapeutic energy.

Life

Life is short, live it! Do what you always wanted to do! Say it! Make it reality! You are the one in charge of your life. Love your life and live it!

Relationship

In a relationship you have to dissolve your ego without any expectations to the other one. If you don’t want to dissolve your ego, why do you want a relationship?

Why is a woman’s virginity or her sexual purity called her honour?

Negativity

If you seek holes in everything and want to see the negative side, you will be affected more and more by negativity.

How come a girl loses her honour when she has sex with a boy that does not fit? How come honour is connected with having sex at all?

It is stupid to try and make others believe what you believe. Never try to change anybody’s belief.

Criminals and people who do wrong live in fear of the consequences of their actions. Religion gives them a good way to find forgiveness. You only need to go to the temple regularly, tell a priest about what you have on your mind, pay some money, say some prayers and you are forgiven. Then you can go out to do the next crime.

You have to take responsibility for your life. You can make a change, nobody else can do that for you.

Many poor Indian people are happy and proud even with the little they have. Reduce your needs and learn to be happy with less, even in the abundance of the west.

Who are you to decide upon life or death? Who are you to decide whether a person should live or die? Who are you to torture another human being?

Yoga

Yoga is only yoga. Without any tradition’s name in front or behind. People have to understand the essence, the real meaning of yoga which is not any specific style and not only physical exercise.

Sex

If you work with sex, do it, but don't call a sex workshop a Tantra workshop!

Happiness

I love what I do and I do what I love.

Important is not how rich you are but how happy you are.

Expectations

It is your own decision how you want to spend your life. You can live a true and honest life. Take your decision and have the courage!

Love

Making love does not only mean sexual activities. Hug someone, create a lovely atmosphere and just love someone. Letting your love flow is making love for me.

Closeness

The base for strengthening an emotional connection is physical closeness. For any close emotional relation you need to be close physically.

Silence

You can communicate in silence, looking into each other’s eyes and just feeling the energy. This also works as healing, it is silence therapy. Silence can cure, just try it.

Closeness

You invite others to celebrate because you want to share your happiness. It makes you happy when others celebrate your happiness together with you. If you are happy but alone, you cannot really enjoy it. When you are sad, too, and someone is there with whom you can share it, your sadness is reduced. You need closeness so that you have somebody to share your happiness and sadness.

You should have enough confidence in yourself and your actions to know that what you do is right. Do your best, with love and your full effort and you have the possibility to be happy.

Illusion only exists with the limitations of this earth. Once the soul is liberated and free of the body and this material world, rich or poor, high or low does not matter anymore.

Sex

Sex is not only physical. It is more about feelings than about the physical aspect. With money you can hire a body but not feelings and surely not love.

Prediction

There is no plan and nobody knows what will happen tomorrow. We can take our decisions and have to take our responsibility for the consequences. Nobody knows before what will happen if you go one way or the other.

Make-up

When women wear a lot of make-up like a mask, it hides their originality and who they really are. Maybe they want to entertain themselves by being someone else for a day. But for how long can you entertain yourself in this way without losing who you are?

Feelings

Trust your feelings and listen to your heart. It will help you take decisions and be stable in your decisions.

What you fear is an illusion, a creation of your mind. The world will not stop turning, whatever may happen!

People prefer making religious donations rather than charity donations to secure a seat in heaven by giving to a preacher or temple.

Feelings

Jealousy is just a natural emotion. If you feel jealous, allow it. If you struggle or fight with it, it will irritate you more. You can be jealous, but realize that it is not a grown-up emotion. Realize your feeling, accept it and let it go again. If there was a justified reason for it, express it. If it was not, express it to yourself and then let it go. There is no sense in being upset about the fact that you have this feeling.

Addiction

If you only drink in company but don't want to, realize that this urge comes from outside. Why is the outside controlling you and brings you into a situation that you don’t want? Be strong in yourself.

Celibacy

Why should sex be forbidden? Can sex, being physically united in love, keep you from being in higher consciousness? On the contrary, suppressing your sexual feelings does not bring you closer to God!

Victim

Being a victim is not a cure. It can be a tendency of behaviour and you have to be brave and leave it. You need to have the strength to step out of the role of being a victim.

Respect

Teach your children respect for others and themselves. Otherwise as adults they will start having psychic problems, don’t love themselves and don’t respect their body and feelings. Sometimes they even start hurting themselves. And there is nobody to stop them and set them limits. If they are not nice to you, why would they be nice to themselves?

Healing

A miraculous healing is usually not any miracle but just the natural strength of the body. The full credit goes to the healer who pretends that it was him who could heal.

Ego

If you made a mistake, don't follow your ego. Accept the truth, even though you were wrong. Don't live for your ego.

The importance of religion is getting less and less.

For many people the happiness of others is a bigger reason to be sad than their own problems.

A positive attitude from your side will also change your surroundings.

Don’t you degrade your own religion if you need to use tricks to convert people? If your religion is really the best, wouldn’t people decide for it out of their free will and not because they are obliged to?

When you trust that you were honest and had a good intention, don’t regret your decision or the result.

Love

If you feel you don't have love, you maybe only have lost your connection. If you did not have love, you would not be longing for love. This is the proof that you have love. You only need to reconnect with your feelings.

Body

Most people are focused on the body. Understand that you are not only the body.

Meditation

Things turn out best if you do only one thing at a time. Only if you always put your full concentration on one action you can do everything with love. That is meditation.

Religion is entertainment for the rich and not necessary for the poor. You have to do ceremonies, go to the temple, give donations, that all costs money. Poor people think of food, only well-off people think of religion.

Does God accept bribes from criminals?

Gurus

How can gurus who love the material, silver and gold, call themselves Paramahansa? A true Paramahansa is not interested in wealth.

Love

Love is not a spark, it is the light that shows you the way. A spark is a spark, only for a moment and when it is gone you are in darkness. Love is the light.

Some people don’t show unconditional appreciation for something even though they really like it. Maybe they want to prove that they are able to do corrections!

Anger

Someone who says he is not angry should feel responsible not to make the other one angry through his behaviour.

Religion fools people and then forbids them to ask questions - so that they blindly believe what is written in scriptures and taught by religious preachers.

Magic

I am just a simple person who believes in love and prayers, not in magic.

If you wish for God to exist, he is there. Our wishes create God.

Spiritual

Spirituality is something very personal and individual. You don’t need to connect with a sect or join a group for living your spirituality. You need deeply felt spirituality and not show-off spirituality. Be natural about your spirituality.

Housewives - you are not worth less! Babies need their Mothers!

Love

Love is nothing to show off but it is still something to show to the one you love. Isn’t it beautiful to say or be told ‘I love you’?

Loneliness

People, afraid of loneliness, want to train themselves for it and make this affirmation: "I can be alone". "I need my space" is another phrase which is often said by those who would actually like to have someone around them.

If Sanyasis or Sadhus have huge Ashrams and temples, amounts of gold and lots of money and live their lives like big corporate businessmen, what is the difference between them and business people?

Friend

It is always possible to have a friendly relation if two people respect each other.

Ego

Don’t let your ego keep you from saying sorry. It does not make you small to apologize. Overcome your ego and apologize for the wrong you did.

Do anything that makes you feel good. We have this life now and we need to live it. There is always time to enjoy life, we just have to take it!

Self-Confidence

Many people in the ‘spiritual scene’ change very quickly and are not stable in their opinion because they are never sure but always in doubt.

Relationship

There should be four steps to a relationship: First you get to know someone, after that you trust him, the third step is love and the fourth step is a relationship. You cannot trust someone without knowing him. Trust is the base for love. And a relationship should be built on love!

Freedom

We all have to be like children. We need to find our inner child which is innocent and has the freedom to express.

Don’t be afraid, there are no such things as Siddhis! Speak out without fear and don’t let gurus cheat more people by claiming to have supernatural powers!

Relationship

Sometimes need to let someone go who does not want to be around you anymore and with whom you cannot share your way anymore. It can happen that these relations get stronger again after some time. Try not to poison a relation. If it doesn’t work, quit quietly. If you can, don’t create bitterness in between you.

Nature

Take care to be in harmony with nature. Enjoy nature and be thankful for it. With thankfulness the respect for nature will become your basic attitude and then you will never have the idea to leave your garbage somewhere in a forest or pollute a river. Being in harmony with nature can make you happy.

Anger

You have to accept your anger. It is a natural feeling, created by god. It is a negative feeling, yes, but you are not bad if you feel angry. It is there and you need to live it!

Sects

You belong to god, you belong to love. You don’t need to belong to anyone or anything which manipulates your mind and where you lose your freedom of being yourself.

Food

Don't eat while walking. Can't you take ten minutes to sit down and eat consciously? You are not just filling a garbage box, it is your body!

Prayers

We dont need more temples in India, we need more toilets!

Presence

If nobody can know anyway what will happen on the next day, why should we worry about it? There will never be an answer! We will see what will happen and we will deal with whatever comes. The past is past and tomorrow will come. Live in the presence, today, now!

Feelings

A greeting card is only a symbol to express what you have inside your heart. It doesn’t matter how big or expensive the card is, you cannot send anything that you do not have. And if you have best wishes in your heart, they will arrive even if you do not send them by post.

Dharma is not religion. Dharma is the tasks that I want to do from my heart, not something that I have to do because I was born to Hindu parents.

Don't like your job? - Change it or start liking it!

Silence

Learn being together in silence. Words often do not really express who we are. Express yourself in silence and you will see how much more you can express!

Body

What is special in any part of the body? Everybody has the same body parts. You do not need to do extra effort for hiding anything and not for exhibiting, either. Why can’t we just be normal and natural?

Yoga

Karma Yoga is when you do something and then forget it. Whatever you do, just offer it to god and don't keep any expectation of getting something in return. That is Karma Yoga.

Soul

Love is the soul of our soul. Without it, you can be alive, but your soul is dead. We need love, it is the essence of our essence.

Relationship

Bonding a relation in terms like 'open', 'short term' or 'long term relationship' shows your insecurity and your doubts. It sounds like a contract. This may suit business relations but it doesn’t fit if you want to establish a relation on the physical, emotional and soul level.

Responsibility

Now you are an adult and you can take your own responsibility in your hands, even if you feel your parents were overprotective. Leave this past behind. This world is not evil and not that dangerous at all. It is there to enjoy.

Acceptance

If someone cannot accept you how you are, how can they love you? And then, why do you need to worry about what they think? We do not accept others as they are and we do not accept ourselves as we are. And then we struggle.

Gurus

Seekers who are searching for the truth go to someone, an organization or Guru, who might know the truth and could lead them towards it. Be careful, you can also be misled!

Higher caste Hindus treat lower-caste people as humans of second grade and untouchable. But imagine you are born a lower-caste Hindu. Would you enjoy being a Hindu? Would you be proud and happy to be a member of this religion?

Some gurus promise they could liberate you from the cycle of reincarnation. Who would prove that? But the guru makes his money…

Self-Confidence

Children and teenagers need a balance of control and freedom.

What is wrong is wrong and if you have seen wrong, you have to speak out against it, keep your loved ones from doing it and make clear that you oppose it.

Body

Give yourself a treat by moving your body, stretching, breathing! Enjoy your body and feel good in it! Whatever you do, enjoy it! Have fun!

Make yourself happy while helping others without expectations.

Love

Love at first sight happens because you have love inside you. Something triggers it, it starts to flow and you fall in love.

Gurus

I will be happy to feel myself always as being a good student. But I see here many times that this desire of being a master comes. People want to be in charge. They want to be a master and it actually is their unfulfilled wish that shows in this way.

Gurus

The Guru and master who started a tradition also asks you to pay for being a follower and franchisee. And in this business the essence of yoga is lost.

Decision

You have to make the decision to love everybody. You have to have the decision to have love in yourself. This is the decision. And then love for the universe will flow naturally.

Beating children only creates anger as well as the thought: ‘Okay, now I am small, you are big, let me become big and then we will see!’

Negativity

In the West, many people live in negative thinking and live in fear with a negative attitude. They are hopeless, suspicious, doubtful and always see the dark side of things. Most of all, they don't enjoy life. Come out of this negativity and see how beautiful life is!

Prayers

Many people think of God as a very distant, unreachable power. For them God is not close and their prayers are very formal. A prayer is something special and can be in many forms, not only certain words. But you need closeness, your heart should be in your prayer.

Constant criticism or negativity is never appreciated, even if it is said in seemingly nice words.

There is proof in the scriptures that shows that the caste system is deeply based in Hinduism. We need to change this religious belief in order to stop the caste system.

Family

Have dinner, lunch or breakfast or maybe all meals in family. It connects you with each other. In this way love can go through the stomach. Share your day with each other, take part in each other’s lives!

Breast implants are for those who look at them, not for the one who will actually touch them in the end.

Money

Money does not make people rich or poor. Someone who has 1000 Dollars seems rich to someone who only has 100 Dollars whereas he seems poor to a millionaire. Numbers don’t make you rich. Some millionaires whom I consider poor and I have seen people who don’t have money but who, to me, are very rich people because of their big heart and generosity.

Prayers

You don’t need a church or temple to pray and get in touch with god.

Men wrote the scriptures saying that women should grieve forever once they are dead. For themselves there is no such rule. They would not have put anything in the scriptures that would cause them a disadvantage!

Sects

Sects create fear. Fear of life, fear of sins, fear of god. Believe in love, not in fear. There is no reason to be afraid. Love is God and God is love

Honesty

People often say and do things that they don’t believe in. How long can you play such a drama? You have to live in your original consciousness.

Friend

A friend is someone who lends you his shoulder and is standing with you in every situation.

Gurus

There are many religions and sects in which the leaders and gurus are those who communicate to god for the other ‘normal people’. You can have this relation to God yourself!

Sex

Sex is a very holy and spiritual act and the subject of soul and body, but not of the mind. If it comes into the mind, it will make you sick. You should enjoy sex with your soul and with your body. Don’t think of it, just do it!

Among friends, in relationships or among family members you should be able to tell the other one whenever you feel that an expectation was not fulfilled.

If you cannot or don't want to help others, at least don't hurt them. If you cannot give a helping hand, don't be cruel or harsh either, especially with those who love you.

Meditation

If you have practice of meditation, you are able to focus and decide what you want to think of. Through meditation and focus you can not only close the door of your office but also the door of your mind to work related topics in order to truly relax.

Religion

Many people of older generations go to church not because of their belief. They go because if they don’t, the neighbours will talk bad or the priest will think they are not religious.

Emotions

Don’t be shy to sing when you feel like it. It is a wonderful expression of your emotions and it opens the fifth chakra, the communication chakra.

Religion

I heard Jesus is not usually an angry or short-tempered guy. He, too, believed in love instead of punishment.

Forgiving

Forgive and leave your anger behind. Remember that this is not an act of grace towards the other person but something that you are doing for yourself, too! Be in love, that makes it easier!

God

God doesn’t want to own a house or a temple, he is just there, living in our heart. It is the greed of people who want to own land – and if they can possess it on the name of God, they do.

Change

There are some things that are stable through all changes of life and your love is one of them.
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