Why are there so quick changes? It is because someone grown up in this western society has learned to work with the mind and not to trust the own feelings. The mind is like a chameleon, changing the colours fast. It is not stable, depending on expectations, be it own expectations or those from others. This is why people are disturbed quickly and have many doubts if a decision was right. Of course, lack of self-confidence plays a major role, too. There are so many factors to this; I will go deeper into this subject in the next days. For the beginning I want to say you: Please trust your feelings and listen to your heart more often. It will help you to take decisions and to be stable in your decisions.