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Today we had fun playing with
the children from the kindergarten. Everybody got a
small water pump in which he or she could fill
coloured water from buckets standing on the lawn. So
we had coloured water and colour powder which we
were throwing on each other. Everybody had lots of
fun and from the colour Andrea, Melly, Susi and
Ramona are still pink now. It doesn't wash
off easily but it is also not worth rubbing too much
today because we will throw colours on each other
the day after tomorrow, too.
I said
already that it is easy to fall in love but more
difficult to build up and maintain a relationship. I
would like to encourage everybody to fall in love
often. And not only with people, no, fall in love
with a smell, fall in love with a colour, love the
moment. Love the way how a person talks, love how
friendly your neighbour is, love it that your body
feels healthy. This will help you to live in a
positive way. We always tend to put our focus on the
bad things. See the good side and enjoy it. When
talking about a person it is important to see both
sides. There should be four steps to a relationship:
First you get to know someone, after that you trust
him, the third step is love and the fourth step is a
relationship. You cannot trust someone without
knowing him. And trust is the base for love. And a
relationship should be built on love! Very often I
see that people try it the other way round: they
start a relationship and then wait for the love to
come or try to develop love. Actually that is not
very different from arranged marriages. There, too,
the partners do not know each other and after a
while, sometimes years, they start loving each
other. Sometimes they don't. The steps are
missing. Get to know each other, then the trust can
grow. With the trust love can come and then the
relationship. In this way your relationship will
have the base for lasting a long time.
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