Distance from the ex partner is necessary to keep away the feelings of jealousy!
Spiritual and esoteric people nowadays believe that the world should be just all love and nothing else, forgetting that 'negative' emotions are necessary for living and developing. They have to be there, they are natural!
The western system fails – it calculates money but emotions have no space in that equation.
The thought of independence and freedom made people lonely.
Whatever you are jealous about, do not fight the feeling, it will only make it worse.