Your 'inner voice' is a combination of your feelings and your experiences, a way of your subconscious mind to tell you what would be good. It is nothing divine.
Don't try to convince others - they have to make their own experience.
Experiences are for experiencing, not for speaking about them.
The explanation of why healing works is not important. Important is your experience.
If you make relationships and break up after one week, I call it experience, not love. It is your search, looking for love. So many people can come and go, an ongoing process until you find love. But love never finishes.