When you expect your daughter- or son-in-law to be the same like you, you don’t even give the possibility and freedom to this fresh couple to develop that healthy relationship coming out of two different cultures.
Strangely enough, communication works better with different culture and language!
Arranged marriage means that I have to cope with you – but I cannot bear your family!
In the Indian society, young people are married like on a deer market and many agree themselves that this is how it should be.
With an arranged marriage you get a place in the other person’s life but the question remains if you get a place in his or her heart. That cannot be arranged!