Innocence of Children - Be like a Child - 7 Jan 09

07 Jan 2009  Edinburgh, United Kingdom

Category: Children

Darshan

It was a nice first day in Scotland. I had healing sessions in the morning and in the afternoon we went to Glasgow to have a Darshan. When I talked about being natural in the Darshan I had to think about Enki, Julie’s two and a half year old son. It is so nice to see him and his energy, how natural he is and how naturally he expresses his feelings. He laughs when he finds something funny and cries when he hurts himself.

Julie was playing with him in the afternoon and it was so funny to watch. They were playing and Julie was holding his legs so that he was upside down. By mistake she dropped him a little bit on the floor and he banged his head on the floor. He did not hurt himself, he just told his mum: “Not like this, mummy!” I saw his cute little face. It was so nice and we laughed so much about it.

We all have to be like children. We need to find our inner child which is innocent and has the freedom to express. From the Darshan we came back late and now I am tired.

Click here to see pictures of the Darshan in Glasgow

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I am sure, that we can learn a lot of our little ones. They are out and out pure, they don't plan anything, they take things as they come, they are spontaneous and reckless. A child doesn't know how to hide his feelings and so is their expression, they are always honest, you don't need to interprete every little gesture.

Reply By Mirela on August 20, 2012 03:24


We all need to find our inner child. To laugh when we are happy, cry when we are sad but most of all to ask questions when we don't understand something. Children are so open to suggestion and help yet as adults we are often afraid to ask or to be different in case we are judged. It can be hard to be honest for fear of offending someone or their culture but I think you learn to respect people more if you ask questions in order to understand them. Children are so much more patient with each other and have more freedom to express themselves without fear.

Reply By Charlotte on December 30, 2011 12:02


I also think it is wonderful that children are so natural at expressing themselves. They aren't afraid to tell the truth. This is something we lose as we grow up... we start worrying about how we might offend people or what they will think of us. Of course we can still treat people with respect, but we should always speak our truth when it's important. It's nice to learn from children in their honesty and natural expression.

Reply By Emily on October 09, 2011 06:51


Awe! baby :)

Reply By Jamie on January 03, 2011 02:12


Beautiful Swami Ji.

Reply By Cassie G. from Maryland on November 11, 2010 11:10


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