23 Jan 2009 Asselscheuer, Luxembourg
Category: Psychology
Today a woman was here for a healing session who has had healings before, too. She was very happy with her progress since the last healing session. She said to me: ‘I am very happy that I have achieved what I had been missing since years.” I also remember last time when she was here. She told me her problem: “Half of my life I am struggling. Both parts of me, male and female are struggling with each other. I always feel my masculine part but my female side was lost in this fight. I want to reconnect with my femininity which got lost in the effort of surviving in this society.” Now this issue is over and it made her really happy. She said: “I feel more like a woman now. Woman and the female side is the creation, she is creative. This time I came to you to get healing for this creativity. I want to materialize this idea of what I want to do in my life.”
I said of course, women have this creative energy. I see that a woman is nature and creator. It is not only the problem of this woman. I see that nowadays it is very common in this society and culture that women lose their identity. They have to come into male energy to make their job and be in this society. They feel that their femininity is lost and they don’t have a connection to the woman inside. They see that they are women but they do not find the female part inside themselves. A struggle starts inside their personality and the feeling comes up that they have lost their identity in the effort of surviving and living.
Male and female is in everyone but every woman has to connect with their feminine side, too. Otherwise this conflict in their personality will arise. Maybe you can suppress it for a while but it can come up anytime and then this can create personality disorders and mental problems. I always talk about accepting and it is again the key in this struggle. Accept yourself as a woman. You are great. Give love to yourself, your body and your personality. Be proud of your femininity. Only a woman can be mother and has this power of creation. She is like a source, like mother earth. She is nature. Get in touch with this energy. I am very happy for this woman who came to me and could solve this issue.
3 Comments
Posted By Swami Balendu
Apra’s German Grandparents in Vrindavan - 28...
It is Saturday, the weekend has started and for ou...
Sometimes it is strange for me to see how much fea...
A whole lot is going on, as always, and we are bus...
I have always been a believer in open communicatio...
So yesterday was my 45th birthday and definitely a...
Until now, I have not told you yet about a program...
Today I woke up in the morning, as usual next to m...
I yesterday wrote about parents who want to suppor...
I yesterday wrote that you should enjoy your work,...
Yesterday I talked with our friend Annick about pe...
In the last week I wrote about aggressive reaction...
I am generally cautious in giving and taking advic...
Yesterday I spoke about a certain reaction of peop...
Today a woman was here for a healing session who h...
Some time ago I wrote about a certain idealism whi...
Yesterday I wrote to you about people who make eve...
As a response to yesterday’s diary one of my...
A lot of times my ideas for my blog entries come f...
In yesterday’s blog post, I told you how imp...
Your country, your culture and the society around ...
Yesterday I wrote about the little judgements that...
A woman was here for a healing session and she tol...
Throughout the year there are many people who come...
Once a woman came to me who had a psychological pr...
Yesterday I wrote about perfectionism and mentione...
I am an open person and I generally express my opi...
Today I would like to write a bit about ambitions....
Today and in the next two days, I would like to wr...
Today I have a topic on my mind which again and ag...
True- our masculine and paternal societies have suppressed the feminine expression for many women. I am certainly supportive of the movement to increase and sustain feminine energy in all people and societies... but not at the expense of the masculine! Some feminist groups dislike and bring down the masculine aspect, but it's just as important. The balance is what we need.
Reply By E. Marie on October 14, 2011 01:15
I don't know what I think about this or how I relate to it but I did enjoy reading it and felt like I took some sense of balance from it. Thanks Swami Ji!
Reply By Mary from the UK on October 31, 2010 11:21
Today was the last day of the school year 11/12. The children got their report cards, the olde...
Read All News
Why do you eat Pig and Cow but not your Dog?
SourceWays of worship like feeding a statue of God would be a big thing to laugh about, was it not a systematic plan of religion to keep you in a numb state of mind where you will not question an order even if it is complete nonsense. You are requested to switch off your mind and follow what you are being told.
SourceYou cannot tell someone to love but you can be proud of your own love. Love your feelings, love and celebrate your love. You have to love yourself and be proud of the love that you can give to others. Never stop loving yourself in this frustration. At the right time you will meet the right person, there is nothing wrong with you and you don’t need to try stopping your love. Don’t create any guilt. Your love is great.
SourceIndia still has not been able to abolish the caste system. Its root is religion and this is why, due to religion, there are still people who are considered untouchable by others.
SourceHaving a positive attitude can help especially in situations when it is difficult for someone else not to fall into a deep hole of negativity.
SourceThe words ‘followers’, ‘disciples’ or ‘devotees’ give much room for abuse of the relationship to a guru.
SourceSomeone who says he is not angry should feel responsible not to make the other one angry through his behaviour.
SourceIsn’t it cruel to show a person that you won’t even touch his arm just because he was born into an untouchable family?
SourceReligion creates feelings of guilt and fear leading to psychological problems.
SourceWhen you trust someone, it has to be blind trust. Either you trust or you don't. There is nothing in between, it is always hundred percent.
SourceLearning is not only for children. Life can always teach you something, your age doesn’t matter. It is wonderful to be curious for something new, something you have not experienced yet.
SourceHow horrible is such a God who wants to keep people frightened and scared instead of happy as they are. For those who promote this it is good, though – they have based their life on the fear of others.
SourceWhat is wrong is wrong and if you have seen wrong, you have to speak out against it, keep your loved ones from doing it and make clear that you oppose it.
SourceSome people who believe in reincarnation neglect their own responsibilities. There is always a very convenient excuse: that happens because of my past life!
SourceBeating children only creates anger as well as the thought: ‘Okay, now I am small, you are big, let me become big and then we will see!’
SourceMany poor Indian people are happy and proud even with the little they have. Reduce your needs and learn to be happy with less, even in the abundance of the west.
SourceHuman always wants to believe what is suitable and comfortable for them.
SourceThis caste system is part of the Hindu religion and comes from religion. So the same religion that you admire and try to imitate is dividing people into higher and lower persons.
SourceMeditation can go long ways in giving you mental discipline. This discipline can help you realize what you can do to feel good in your body.
SourceDon't try to control everything!
Source
Have something to say? Post your comment
Comments are moderated and will be allowed if they are about the topic and not abusive.