29 Aug 2009 New York, United States of America
Category: Happiness
Some days ago I talked about it that every city has its own energy. When walking through the streets of New York and Chicago I also noticed that in general people look more happy than what I see in Europe. Of course, there are many tourists here who are anyway fascinated and excited to be here, but also people who live here, who are in their daily rhythm. And one thing that Ramona noticed is that the service in each supermarket was very nice. So many people greet very friendly and look more satisfied.
Here I feel that people also have more ambitions. If this is what makes you more open, then it is not wrong. I know that people here also have their problems and some of them certainly also big problems but just to be said in general, it seems to be a positive atmosphere. I like that and if you are positive and happily interacting with your surroundings, you will realize that this has an impact on your inner attitude and on how people act with you. Many people smile once you pass a smile their way. And most people will be happy if you ask them how they are or wish them a nice day, even if you only shared a ride in the bus or stood next to each other in the elevator. Show your happiness, be satisfied and let others take part in this happiness.
Tags:: Energy, Happiness, Positivity
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That's always a great feeling, when people around you seem to be happy. Thus you are in the same mood. I also experienced this change of energy and increase of happines in people's faces during my travels (specially the poorest are sometimes happier then peope in the West), it is wonderful!
Reply By Mirela on August 15, 2012 05:18
Oh good! I'm so glad to hear that New York City was a friendly and vibrant place in your experience. I have heard lots of people feel the opposite about that city, compared to their hometowns... but this is all in relative perspective! I believe that cultural differences may make it seem like people are kinder or friendlier in one place rather than another... but if you get to know someone on a more personal level, I think you will find that we are all capable of friendliness and kindness. But we all see through the filter of our own culture.
Reply By Emily on October 14, 2011 12:10
A Happy Picture. Bonds of Love and Friendship. Beautiful:)
Reply By Debra Bonner Garbutt on July 22, 2010 09:08
Absolutely! Nothing begins a conversation better than a smile.. big hugs.. I love your smiles.. thank you..
Reply By Mary Buckley on July 21, 2010 12:11
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