19 Nov 2009 Vrindavan, India
Category: Happiness
Yesterday I said that if you need something to occupy the mind with, you could do something that you always wanted to do. What are these kind of things? Many people tell me that in their retirement they can now finally do things that they never had time for but had always wanted to do. Others tell me that after a healing they finally had the courage to do what they had always wanted to do but never dared. In spiritual healing sessions I even hear that people say after breaking up that they now could do what they had always wanted to do. More positively people tell me that finally they could tell their partner what they had always wanted him or her to know but which they never told.
So the reason for not doing or not saying things that you actually want to say or do is fear, lack of courage and maybe a lack of time. For the argument of time I have to say that you should always find time to do what you really want to do. You should not push things to ‘another day’ or a later time if you really have the wish to do them. Take care of yourself, take time for yourself!
And also have courage to do something for yourself. Have the courage to do what you always wanted to do. Otherwise your life is over before you got to do it! Life is short, you need to live it! If there is any wish in your heart that needs to be fulfilled, do it! Say it! Make it reality! You are the one in charge of your life. love your life and live it!
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It always makes me sad when I hear people say that they have no time for themselves or the things they'd like to do. They are too busy working and fulfilling other obligations. I believe they do this because they feel that they need the money. But when you never do things for yourself, you burn out of energy and passion for life rapidly. I think life could be more simple... If you don't have the money for 3 cars in the family, then sell one. You'll need less money to pay it off, can work less as a result, and take some much needed time for yourself to enjoy life! It's so important.
Reply By Emily on October 17, 2011 12:02
I always find a way to do the things that are important to me. Always. Why shouldn't you? so few things matter, it is easy to get what you want.
Reply By Tanya on November 01, 2010 02:24
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