30 Jan 2008 Schwabmunchen, Germany
Category: Relationships
As I said yesterday it is sometimes funny how relationships are started here. The source of a relationship is important. In which consciousness have you started it? How has it grown up later on? With fear or without? And again there is the question of trust. Trust is really missing here. People have doubts before anything even started. Some still have this question even when the relationship is already years old: How long will it last? Many people are living with this kind of fear. However like this a relationship does not have a good basis. Build your relationship on trust and love. This is the way.
Ramona brought the second part of yesterday's movie to watch it today. I do not really remember the movie. I know I liked it but somehow I do not remember any details. It is just not important. There are things that happened twenty years ago and I could tell you exactly each word that was spoken. But I do not remember the story of yesterday's movie. My mind works like that.
Tags:: Fear, Love, Mind, Relationships, Trust, Doubts
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