Love

Love is God and God is Love.

This is Swami ji's main principle and he lives according to it. He has dedicated his life to loving others.

In his diary or daily blog he writes about his experiences with love, how you can open your heart and bring more love into your life.

He writes about what can happen if you close yourself to the love and what can happen if you really accept love in your life and live it!

Lovers
Swami Balendu describes how people get to cheat on their partners and how polygamy fits into this picture as well! Read More

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Monkey at the Ashram
Swami Balendu explains that there is no feeling that cannot coexist with love – nor is it hate, nor is it fear! Read More

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No Sex after long working Days
Swami Balendu tells his view on an issue someone asked him about: after lots of stress at work, he is too tired or has no time to sleep with his wife! What to do? Read his answer here. Read More

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Western Women and Indian Men in Relationship
Swami Balendu writes a few general pieces of advice for Indian men and western women who are about to start a serious relationship. Read More

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Indian Man Chatting
Swami Balendu writes an appeal to Indian men who are not serious about the talk they have online with western women who start falling in love with them. Read More

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Words of Wisdom

  • Sects

    Come out of your system, sect or religion to see what is wrong with it.

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  • Sex

    When two people meet and decide to have sex and decide on the next day that they want to have sex with a fully different person, it is their private matter – as long as they don't cheat anyone, wear a condom and don’t spread any diseases!

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  • God

    Your wishes create God.

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  • Belief

    Atheists have done something that is not very different from what Buddha has done – they formed just another group with a different belief, the belief that there is no god.

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  • Respect

    When you feel that a person is not respectful towards you, remember that he probably doesn’t even feel any respect for himself, so it is difficult to feel it for you.

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  • Belief

    How could you, by writing a few lines or talking a few minutes, erase ideas which have been created over the course of many years or were learned while growing up? Change takes place only when a person is ready and really wants to.

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  • Friend

    In a close friendship, there are two separate individuals who give each other love but can still have different belief and ideas of life.

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  • Hope

    If you don’t have hopes, dreams and expectations you won’t be happy. Dream, hope, let your imagination fly and simultaneously use your brain, hands and feet in order to make your dreams become reality!

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  • Sex

    Don’t set the moral standards for another person higher than for yourself!

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  • Vegetarian

    Why do you eat Pig and Cow but not your Dog?

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  • Personal

    I have never seen myself as a teacher and I don’t do it until now. I always thought of myself as someone who is still learning himself – and not someone who could teach others. I do not see myself in this light and I do not want others to see me like this.

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  • Judging

    There would be no development if nobody ever judged. You would always accept everything as it is. We need to judge.

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  • Happiness

    We are mostly happy when we take but true happiness is when you enjoy giving.

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  • Gurus

    Not rarely you can see that yoga or meditation gurus mix two common practices and call it their own, put a patent on it and then sell it.

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  • Relationship

    Physical closeness is the key for successful relationships.

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  • Happiness

    People in India have something to give to the traveller. They can show you how to make the best of what you have. To be satisfied. To be happy. Not to compare yourself with everyone else and feel bad about it. To realize how rich you really are, not only materially but emotionally, in your heart. You learn to value the small things again and you find back to an inner happiness that cannot be shaken easily anymore.

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  • Friend

    If you have befriended someone because of a reason, when those reasons are gone, your friendship has no meaning anymore.

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  • Spiritual

    Everybody is spiritual in his own way. Even if you don’t go into a temple or church or are not sure about god, you are spiritual if you believe in love.

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  • Sects

    If you see a friend being pulled into a sect or a group that has bad practices, tell him what you think about it but in the end you have to let him believe what he wants to believe.

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  • Self-Confidence

    Get the self-confidence to get out of the habits of comparing and pretending to be someone else. Love yourself, as you are. Accept whoever you are, respect your feelings of what you want to do and what you don’t want to do and love! Then your mind will be free from the worry and you will realize that others do love you as you are.

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