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Love
This is Swami Ji's main principle and he lives according to it. He has dedicated his life to loving others.
In his diary or daily blog he writes about his experiences with love, how you can open your heart and bring more love into your life.
He writes about what can happen if you close yourself to the love and what can happen if you really accept love in your life and live it!
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Are you ready to accept the Death of your Children to save your Traditions? - 15 May 13 |
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| Swami Balendu writes about the tragic suicides that happen because children are in desperate situations, loving someone whom their parents wouldn't approve of. | ||||
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A true Story - How Indian Culture doesn't allow Love outside set Rules - 14 May 13 |
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| Swami Balendu writes a true story of a man and a woman who fell in love but whose love story ended due to the strict laws of Indian culture. | ||||
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Arranged Marriage means that I have to cope with you – but I cannot bear your Family! - 29 Apr 13 |
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| Swami Balendu writes about the problems that exist in many Indian families where the daughters-in-law have fights with the rest of the family. The problem is clear for him: arranged marriage! | ||||
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Just married and unhappy, 30 Years married and still unhappy! - 25 Apr 13 |
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| Swami Balendu tells how he has got the feeling that it is difficult in India to find a happily married couple. Read about his experience. | ||||
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When a Partner has lost his or her sexual Interest - 7 Apr 13 |
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| Swami Balendu describes a series of individual sessions he had in 2005 about the private life of a couple. What should one do if the partner does not want to have any sexual activity anymore? | ||||
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You cannot love, have Sex with different People and not be jealous all at the same time! - 17 Mar 13 |
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| Swami Balendu describes a conversation that he had with a polygamous friend who was sad when his wife had sex with someone else. Read more. | ||||
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I don't think loving God is divine and loving your Family is Attachment - 14 Feb 13 |
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| Swami Balendu describes how his idea of love changed with his change of belief. Read why he does not anymore think that love for the family is only attachment. | ||||
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Naniji facing the biggest Pain: the Loss of her Daughter - 14 Dec 12 |
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| Swami Balendu writes about his grandmother Naniji and her grief after the death of his mother Ammaji. Read about the sadness of the oldest member of the Ashram. | ||||
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The biggest Love I have ever seen: the Relationship of my Parents - 13 Dec 12 |
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| Swami Balendu describes the love in between his father and his late mother – who recently died. Read an emotional depiction of the great love they shared. | ||||
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Ammaji - a special Woman and the best Mother - 12 Dec 12 |
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| Swami Balendu writes about his mother, dedicating another blog entry to her qualities, her memory and her special love. | ||||
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How my Mother's Life slipped away in front of us - 11 Dec 12 |
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| Swami Balendu describes the last evening and the last hour in his mother's life and how they lost her. | ||||
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Ten-and-a-half Months, 72 Centimeters and 7.64 Kilogram - Apra is our Star! - 28 Nov 12 |
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| Swami Balendu describes the development of his baby daughter, how she grows and learns new things every single day. | ||||
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Arranged Marriage or Love? A Generation in between Tradition and Freedom - 31 Oct 12 |
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| Swami Balendu writes about today's young generation and explains why they are not in the old tradition but also not fully out of it. | ||||
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Is the Parameter of Success in Marriage no Divorce or a loving Relationship? - 30 Oct 12 |
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| Swami Balendu writes about arranged marriages in India and the problems that people have once they have married. | ||||
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15 Questions for religious and spiritual People - 1 Oct 12 |
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| Swami Balendu reflects upon religion and spirituality and writes down 15 questions that religious and spiritual people should ask themselves. | ||||
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Long-Term Partners or a married Couple - is there a Difference? - 27 Sep 12 |
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| Swami Balendu writes about the difference of marriages and long-term partnerships. Do you have to marry? Or would it bring advantages to do so? Read some different ideas and opinions. | ||||
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High Divorce Rates keeping young People from marrying - 26 Sep 12 |
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| Swami Balendu writes about the consequences of high divorce rates, how it frightens young people and how the number of marriages thus reduces. | ||||
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How harmful can devotion be? - 12 Sep 12 |
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| Swami Balendu describes in which ways devotion can be harmful – not only combined with religion! Read an interesting new take on devotion! | ||||
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Not only Partners, also best Friends! - 10 Sep 12 |
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| Swami Balendu writes about the idea that your partner should be your best friend. Read about arranged marriages, his personal experienced and how it should be. | ||||
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Letter to my seven-month-old Daughter Apra - 15 Aug 12 |
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| Swami Balendu writes a letter to Apra who has started teething and due to this has fever and is cranky. Read his words to his daughter. | ||||
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'I trust you' is more valuable than 'I love you' - 26 Jul 12 |
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| Swami Balendu writes about trust and love. Read why he thinks that trust is even more important than love. | ||||
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The Key for a loving, successful Relationship: Reduce your Ego - 11 Jul 12 |
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| Swami Balendu writes about relationships and one of the most common reasons why relationships break – the ego! Read what you can do about that. | ||||
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Endless Happiness watching our Baby Girl Apra discovering the World - 26 Jun 12 |
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| Swami Balendu describes the past weeks with his baby girl Apra, how she developed, what she likes and how much they love everything she does. | ||||
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Turning Points of my Life - Losing a Sister and getting a Daughter - 25 May 12 |
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| Swami Balendu writes on the birthday of his sister whom he lost in a car accident. Read about the mix of emotions on this day. | ||||
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You don't count the Faults and Mistakes of your loved ones - 9 May 12 |
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| Swami Balendu writes about how many things you can accept if you love someone. Separation is the last way to take! | ||||
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Low Divorce Rate in India - does it show the Success of arranged Marriages? - 24 Apr 12 |
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| Swami Balendu writes about the question whether arranged marriages are successful or not and questions whether the divorce rate is a meter of success. | ||||
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How to live in Peace in a Family - Secrets for living together - 16 Mar 12 |
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| Swami Balendu tells how it is possible to live together without fighting and without having the feeling that freedom and individuality are gone. | ||||
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Did we really need Religion? - 17 Feb 12 |
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| Swami Balendu writes about the positive effects of religion and asks whether that all could not have happened without religion, too. | ||||
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Marketing Love - Commercializing Valentine's Day - 14 Feb 12 |
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| Swami Balendu writes about Valentine's Day, Valentine's Week, Valentine's presents, Valentine's sweets and more! | ||||
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Housewives - you are not worth less! Babies need their Mothers! - 27 Jan 12 |
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| Swami Balendu writes about housewives and working moms, about the expectations that society has on women who have babies and why he thinks it is a good idea to stay at home with your child. | ||||
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Don't get stressed in the Preparations of your Family's Christmas Celebration - 22 Dec 11 |
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| Swami Balendu describes why people get stressed on Christmas when the whole family comes together and how you can avoid tension and pressure. | ||||
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Legal Version of Honour Killing - Making your Children Outcasts - 22 Nov 11 |
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| Swami Balendu describes how parents refuse the partner that their child chose and how they then stop every contact to them. | ||||
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Wishes for a Happy Diwali filled with Love - 26 Oct 11 |
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| Swami Balendu wishes everyone a very happy Diwali. Read about the celebration at the Ashram. | ||||
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Sharing has double Effect - decreases Sadness and increases Happiness! - 8 Aug 11 |
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| On his brother Yashendu's birthday Swami Ji writes about reasons to be happy and how sharing happiness increases your happiness. | ||||
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What is the right Reason for having a Child? - 2 Aug 11 |
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| Swami ji writes about the different reasons that parents can have to have a child and he explains why it should not be just a natural urge or the wish to be loved. | ||||
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Cheating made easy online - Business of Sex, Love and Pain - 28 Jul 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about a dating website for married people who want to cheat on their partners. Read his views about this business and about the question of betraying your partner. | ||||
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How does religious Hate turn into Violence like in Oslo? - 26 Jul 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the anti-Muslim movements all over the world that Oslo shooter Breivik mentions in his manifesto. Read his idea about what we can do against such thoughts. | ||||
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Accepting the Truth of Death and the final Goodbye to my Grandfather - 24 Jul 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes the time of death of his grandfather. Read an emotional report of feelings and actions in his life in 2002. | ||||
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Religious Education in Schools could be dangerous for our Children - 21 Jul 11 |
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| Swami Balendu writes about religious education in schools and why in his opinion religion should not be a subject in schools. | ||||
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Do Hormones really make Teenagers yell, scream and insult their Parents? - 18 Jul 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the lack of respect that teenagers have in front of their parents in the west. Read about the reasons and consequences of this behavior. | ||||
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Overprotective Parents keep Children from making their own Experiences - 13 Jul 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes how parents, who protect their children too much and in the result make them feel insecure in whatever they do. Let your child free to make its experience! | ||||
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Devotion or Lack of Devotion responsible for Success or Failure of Relationships - 6 Jul 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes two individual sessions after each other which both were about the topic devotion in a relationship. Read how different the experiences can be. | ||||
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Why do you have wild Animals and Reptiles as Pets? - 5 Jul 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about people who keep wild animals such as snakes and reptiles but even tigers, foxes and lions. Read about circus animals and magic shows with wild tigers. | ||||
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Love for Animals - The only healthy Way of keeping Pets - 1 Jul 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes the only way of keeping pets that is in his eyes acceptable: with much love and in an appropriate surrounding for the animals. | ||||
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Animals as Substitutes for Children or Partner to fill emotional Gap - 30 Jun 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about people who have pets for a certain purpose: to have someone to command or to have a substitute for a child or a partner. Read why this is not healthy. | ||||
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If you eat Meat do not claim that you love Animals - 28 Jun 11 |
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| Swami Balendu describes how meat-eaters think their meat ideally comes to their plate and how the shocking reality looks like. | ||||
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Attachment to Diseases - Emotional Surgery needed to heal - 23 Jun 11 |
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| Swami Balendu describes how some people develop an attachment to their disease and thus don?t really want to heal. Read about the emotional surgery that is necessary with the physical one. | ||||
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Feeling at Home among Foreigners in a foreign Country - 12 Jun 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes his first stay in Lüneburg, in the house of a non-Indian stranger. He describes why this was different from any previous experience. | ||||
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Flexible Followers of Multiple Gurus - Confused Sociable Salesmen - 10 Jun 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes another type of follower - the flexible one who runs after every guru he can find and brings all philosophies together. | ||||
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Strict Followers - No Tolerance for other Gurus - 9 Jun 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about another type of followers: strict followers who want to have only one guru and who don?t want to hear about any other guru. | ||||
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Baba Ramdev - Yogi or Terrorist - Plans for his own Army - 8 Jun 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes another letter to Baba Ramdev, who now wants to build an army himself to fight the government. Read his opinion about this. | ||||
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Homesick for the first Time in Germany - 5 Jun 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes his second trip to Germany in 2001 when he got homesick for the first time in his life. Read the story of his life in his blog. | ||||
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Blind Followers - Ideal Followers for every Guru - 31 May 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes the first type of followers in his series. Blind followers who don?t care who the guru is as long as he tells them what to do and they don?t have any responsibility. | ||||
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Feeling easy and comfortable with religious-minded People in London - 29 May 11 |
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| Swami ji describes why he had such a good time in October 2001 with new friends in London, where he was only for the second time in his life. | ||||
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Philosophical Fiction of religious Scriptures is not the only Truth - 27 May 11 |
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| Swami Ji explains in which way he still believes in scriptures and uses excerpts in his workshops and lectures. He does not however see them as 100% accurate. | ||||
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God has no religion - just like me - 26 May 11 |
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| Swami Ji replies to a question about his own relation to Gods of Hinduism and Christianity. Read how he is friends with all Gods of all religions. | ||||
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Care for Love and Relations - You cannot replace Anybody - 25 May 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about friends and beloved ones that you lose either through death, like he lost his sister, or through differences of opinion. Take care of those who are around you. | ||||
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Harold Camping predicting Doomsday and cashing in on resulting Fear - 23 May 11 |
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| Swami Ji explains why many people thought the world would end on 21st May 2011. Read his point of view on Harold Camping?s announcement of doomsday. | ||||
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Connection of Money and Happiness - 20 May 11 |
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| Swami Balendu writes this entry in his diary about the question whether money can make you happy. Read his conclusion and his arguments why this is not possible. | ||||
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Finding the Purpose of your Life brings Happiness - 19 May 11 |
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| Swami Ji explains why exactly he loves his life. His work, his friends and the purpose of his work are only examples. | ||||
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Is Swami Vishwananda responsible for separating a loving couple? - 18 May 11 |
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| Swami Ji gives answers to a woman whose boyfriend broke up because his guru told him to. Read what he thinks about this. | ||||
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Do not mind different Opinions among Friends - 17 May 11 |
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| Swami Ji explains that even if he writes his opinion in his diary and it doesn?t match the opinion of his friends, they should not mind as in a friendship people have different opinions. | ||||
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True Friends stay when your Philosophy and Belief change - 16 May 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about real friendships that don?t break only because one of two has changed his opinion, ideology, philosophy or way. | ||||
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How to avoid stress and burnout in business life - 10 Tips - 13 May 11 |
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| Swami Ji gives suggestions how businessmen can relax and take away stress and pressure that usually causes burnout and nervous breakdowns. | ||||
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Burnout in Business - Allow your feelings as a Businessman - 12 May 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes how the business world makes people physically and mentally ill by forbidding any kind of emotion and feeling. | ||||
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Spiritual Healing now called Spiritual Counseling to avoid Superstition - 9 May 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes what makes him change the way but not the method from spiritual healing sessions to spiritual counseling. | ||||
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Positive Effects of Spiritual Healing - 8 May 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes how he gave spiritual healing in the year 2001, when he did Mantra Healing, Touch Healing, Rituals and Ceremonies. | ||||
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Environmental Awareness and a Green Political Party needed in India - 6 May 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes how you see that India needs to do a lot more for the environment and why it would be good to have an environmental political party. | ||||
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A Healthy Relationship with Equal Partners - 5 May 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about a relationship in which both partners are equal in rights and responsibilities. They both are secure but can seek refuge in the other?s arms. | ||||
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Outspoken Nature can create Enemies - 4 May 11 |
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| Swami Ji explains that through his open way of writing what he thinks, many people start attacking him. He would not be surprised if there soon were fake stories about his sex scandals. | ||||
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Religious Terrorist Osama bin Laden is Dead - but his Thoughts are not - 2 May 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the death of Osama bin Laden, the terrorist who took the religion of Islam as base for his war against the western world. | ||||
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Superstitious Belief of Tribal Times in Modern London - 1 May 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes his experience of helping a victim of a charlatan performing black magic in his second visit to London in 2011. | ||||
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Why is the Royal Wedding of Prince William and Kate Middleton important? - 29 Apr 11 |
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| Swami Balendu writes about the wedding of Prince William and Kate Middleton, how big of an interest the media takes and why we should actually let them celebrate alone. | ||||
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Are you searching for a Mother in your Relationship with your Wife? - 28 Apr 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about relationships in which the wife is stressed that she is like a mother and the husband is annoyed that both don't feel any sexual arousal for each other anymore. | ||||
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Are you searching for a Father in your Relationship with your Husband? - 27 Apr 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes why some women search for a father figure, how such relationships look like and how you can balance your relationship if you are in that situation. | ||||
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Will Fake God Sathya Sai Baba Die Soon? - 21 Apr 11 |
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| Swami Ji asks why the God-man Sathya Sai Baba is now in the hospital on life support if he is God, better and higher than all of us. Shouldn?t God die in dignity, if at all? | ||||
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How much effort do you do to be lovely and loveable? - 20 Apr 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes how many people play roles, compare themselves with others and feel as if other people don?t love or accept them as they are. Read what you can do against this. | ||||
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Your Tears are the Proof of Love inside You - 18 Apr 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes what you can do if you have the feeling that you don?t have love inside but have to cry whenever you think this. | ||||
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Be Ready to Accept a Change for the Better! - 13 Apr 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes how change in life takes place and why we need to be ready to go with the change of time instead of fighting against it. | ||||
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Equal Treatment in Education for poor Boys and Girls - 4 Apr 11 |
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| Swami ji writes about charity organizations that help poor girls in India. He explains that boys also need help and that we should treat children equally. | ||||
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Yoga means uniting yourself - but with what? - 17 Mar 11 |
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| Again Swami Ji answers the question 'what is yoga', this time with a metaphor. Read about Vedanta Philosophy and the basic principle you are that! | ||||
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India Biggest Importer of Arms - Arms Race for Power - 15 Mar 11 |
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| Swami Ji speaks about India buying weapons. Read his opinion about this purchase and what is going to happen with that. | ||||
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Prayers for the Survivors of Earthquake and Tsunami in Japan - 14 Mar 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the catastrophe of earthquake, tsunami and explosion at the nuclear power station that happened in Japan and killed thousands of people. He sends love to the survivors. | ||||
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Denial of Sexual Relation by Gurus, their Wives and Followers - 11 Mar 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes how gurus have partners but never accept them as wives. Read how disciples deny what is obvious: the 'very close female disciple' is his girlfriend! | ||||
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Sexual Abuse of Handicapped Girls by Charity Organization - 7 Mar 11 |
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| Swami ji writes about the cases of sexual abuse that took place in India and discusses who would be capable of such a crime. | ||||
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Doing Business for Charity rather than Doing Charity as a Business - 4 Mar 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about his attitude towards business, cheating in business and begging in charity. He wants to do honest business and then give money to charity. | ||||
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Our Philosophy of Charity - 2 Mar 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes his attitude and the attitude of his family towards the children charity work they are doing, how they work for it and how it developed. | ||||
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Why the Sect ISKCON annoys Locals, Strangers and finally also Devotees - 24 Feb 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes some of his experiences with members of ISKCON and how locals as well as foreigners feel strange about the behavior of devotees. | ||||
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Expressing Love on Valentines Day does not destroy Indian Culture - 14 Feb 11 |
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| Swami Ji explains why the Bajrang Dal, an extreme nationalist organization, wants to stop every kind of Valentine's Day celebration. | ||||
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Creating Greed for Donations - A Popular Idea of Religion - 9 Feb 11 |
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| Swami Ji explains how religions, scriptures, leaders and gurus create greed in people and how this increases their income of donations. | ||||
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Is it Possible to Bribe God? - 7 Feb 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about people who pray to God for fulfillment of their wishes and then give a generous donation to the temple or as if to bribe God. | ||||
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Relax every Day, not only on Holidays - 2 Feb 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the idea that people need one, two or even more holidays per year in order to relax. | ||||
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Chief Minister of Karnataka Yeddyurappa Attacked by Black Magic - 1 Feb 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about Yeddyurappa's statement that his opposition wants to kill him through black magic. Read about the effects and Swami Ji's opinion. | ||||
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My Idea of Holidays - Not Learning but Relaxing - 25 Jan 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes how he likes to pass his holidays. Shopping, eating, looking at architecture and seeing historical buildings can all be part of it. | ||||
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Religion is Good in Museums and God is in Your Heart - 22 Jan 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes his holiday in Cochin and why he did not go to any of the various temples, churches, mosques and synagogues. | ||||
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Does Freedom Mean Physical Distance and Financial Independence? - 20 Jan 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about how people in the west understand the word freedom and why this can lead to loneliness and less contact to others. | ||||
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Lack of a Loving Touch Creates Loneliness in the West - 19 Jan 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about why many people in the west don?t have physical contact to anybody and feel lonely because of that. | ||||
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Natural Physical Closeness in India Make Families Strong - 18 Jan 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about closeness among families and friends in India. To westerners, not used to such closeness, this behavior can create a funny first impression. Read more about these cases. | ||||
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Emotional Connection with Children through Physical Closeness - 17 Jan 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the necessity of physical closeness in order to make an emotional connection with children - which is relatively easy as they understand emotions well! | ||||
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Help for Parents Dealing with Teenagers - 13 Jan 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about how children get older and start living their own lives. It may be that this life looks different from all the values that you taught them. | ||||
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Leaving the Cave - My Day of Rebirth - 9 Jan 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes the day when he left the cave after more than three years. He tells what happened, how he felt and how everybody reacted. | ||||
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Is Sex not for Pleasure, only for Reproduction? - 7 Jan 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the strange idea of some religious groups and sects that sex is only for making babies. Read what this can lead to. | ||||
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We would Love to Visit you - 6 Jan 11 |
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| Swami Ji writes about his organizers, invitations, his programs and why everybody can freely come and invite him. | ||||
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New Year Eve and New Year Celebration - 1 Jan 11 |
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| Swami Ji describes the New Year?s Eve celebration that they had at the Ashram, how everybody had fun, enjoyed danced and started the New Year in this way. | ||||
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Review of the Year 2010 - Experiences and Changes - 31 Dec 10 |
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| Swami ji tells what happened to him each month of this year. Read about happy and sad moments as well as changes. | ||||
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Pope says Child Abuse was normal because of Society - 30 Dec 10 |
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| Swami ji writes about a statement of the Pope who talked about the child abuse scandal and saw it as a logical result of the attitude of society. | ||||
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Celebrations are not a Matter of Religion but of Love - 26 Dec 10 |
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| Swami Ji explains why he celebrates Christmas at his Ashram in India although he is not Christian nor Hindu. | ||||
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Christmas is not all about Presents! - 25 Dec 10 |
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| Swami ji writes about how the Ashram celebrated Christmas and why presents should not be the main focus point of a celebration. | ||||
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No Insecure Feelings Anymore - Trust in Your Relationship - 21 Dec 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about trust in relationships which is often missing. People say they trust but then need an individual security. | ||||
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How much Time do you have for your Relationship? - 20 Dec 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the time that you have to invest if you want your relationship to work. Don?t only live together like contract partners but like two who love each other! | ||||
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Getting Old in the West - What Will You Do? - 18 Dec 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the situation of old people in the west, about homes for the elderly, responsibility of the young and responsibility of old people, too. | ||||
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Experience Death in Meditation and Orgasm - Completely Functionless - 17 Dec 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about early deaths after happy lives as well as the state of death in daily life, in meditation and orgasm. | ||||
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Spiritual Healing - Love is the Healer, Not Me - 15 Dec 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about healing and how healing actually comes from inside you. He doesn?t have the ego of being the healer but only makes it possible for you to connect with your source. | ||||
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A Beautiful Video Game - Teach Love and Compassion - 12 Dec 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about his idea how a perfect video game could be that would not teach your children how to kill others, to steal and to murder. | ||||
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Give Respect to the Elderly if you Want Respect from Younger People - 10 Dec 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about elderly people, why you should respect them and how you can deal with them being like children. | ||||
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Afraid of Dying? - Convert to Hinduism! - 7 Dec 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the journey of life and how its end is death for some people and how others, those who believe in Hinduism, escape the fear of this ending day. | ||||
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Journey of Life with the Goal in your Hands - 6 Dec 10 |
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| Swami Ji explains how he sees a common metaphor: the journey of life. What is its goal? Is it the endpoint, our dying day? | ||||
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The Ego of Being Perfect - 5 Dec 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes how our ego can be in our way when we believe that everything is perfect. | ||||
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Rape Charges Filed against Nithyananda - 29 Nov 10 |
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| Swami ji writes about the charge sheets filed against Nithyananda which include rape, unnatural sex and more. Read his opinion about Nithyananda. | ||||
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Another Chance to Celebrate - 26 Nov 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about his wedding and how it is more a question of the heart for him than a question of a paper. | ||||
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Guru Nanak Dev and the Universal Philosophy of Truth - 21 Nov 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the philosophy of Guru Nanak Dev which can be found in the Vedanta philosophy and the basic principles of many religions. | ||||
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Your Wedding is for you not for the Photographer - 20 Nov 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about a wedding that his family went to on which they got the impression that neither bride nor groom could really enjoy the celebration. | ||||
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14 Types of People who are Always Welcome at the Ashram - 19 Nov 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes a list of those people who enjoy being at the Ashram and with whom the Ashram family enjoys. Read this before coming to the Ashram! | ||||
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8 Types of People who are not Welcome at the Ashram - 18 Nov 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes a list of types of people whom the Ashram does not want to welcome. He writes about drugs, alcohol, people looking for a free place or for gurus and masters. | ||||
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End of a Yoga Teacher Training and Ayurveda Yoga Holiday at the Ashram - 17 Nov 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the last day of the Yoga Teacher Training and the Ayurveda Yoga Holiday at the Ashram and what experiences people had. | ||||
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Relationship Types - From Singles and Love Affairs to Open Relationships - 16 Nov 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes how people see their own relationships in different ways. He describes singles who want a relation and those who don?t, couples who are free for sleeping with others and monogamous couples. | ||||
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Avoid Violence - Do not let Children Play with Weapons - 11 Nov 10 |
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| Swami ji writes about toys like pistols and guns which teach children violence early. Of course TV also has a big negative influence. | ||||
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Sex and Promiscuity of Men and Women in Society - 9 Nov 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about how men and women who have much Sex with different people are looked at differently in society. | ||||
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Beating Children Costs Money - So Leave It! - 3 Nov 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about a study that explains that corporal punishment costs the country money which is why they should enforce children?s rights. | ||||
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Living in Yoga is more important than doing Yoga - 1 Nov 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the differences in between living or being in yoga and merely doing yoga and counting the hours of yoga practice. | ||||
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Yoga Teachers! Do not worry about Perfection! - 28 Oct 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the wish for perfection which many yogateachers have and he describes how this actually makes your teaching worse. | ||||
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Religion and Spirituality - What is the Difference? - 25 Oct 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about what religion is and what spirituality is. He writes about the rules of religion and the love for what you do in spirituality. | ||||
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Friends can be Street-Friends or Longtime Friends - 23 Oct 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about whom you can call friend and how there is a difference between those whom you have known for long and whom you just met. | ||||
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How much can you Expect from your Friend? - 21 Oct 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about situations in which expectations of a friend can feel like a burden and situations in which you support without the other one\'s expectation for help. | ||||
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Are Expectations allowed in Friendships? - 19 Oct 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about expectations in between friends. Which expectations can you have and which expectations are too high? | ||||
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Are Religions that much Complicated? - 17 Oct 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about fights in between members of different religions. He is of the opinion that we should just leave all religions behind. | ||||
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I thought Jesus is not angry or short-tempered? - 16 Oct 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about chanting om in the beginning of yoga classes, about people who believe that God would be angry because of it and about yoga and meditation accepted in western medicine. | ||||
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Modern Version of Religious Rituals - 13 Oct 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the changes that people do to their religious rituals. This results in having fast food instead of fasting food, alcohol highness instead of highness for devotion and a bigger amount of condoms sold. | ||||
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Belief is Personal! Religious Leaders: Do not Spread Confusion! - 12 Oct 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about priests, preachers and other authorities of religious institutions who try to force others into believing what they believe themselves. | ||||
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Do you share your Heart with Friends? - 8 Oct 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about friends with whom you can share your heart and why this is such a special quality of friendships. | ||||
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Commonwealth Love Games - Play Safe with Condoms - 7 Oct 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the increased condom sales at the Commonwealth Games in Delhi ? a proof of a loving and safe environment! | ||||
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Trust in Friendships - 5 Oct 10 |
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| Swami Ji talks about the importance of trust in friendships. He mentions different kinds of friendships with different levels of trust. | ||||
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Teacher Training Seminar - 4 Oct 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the teacher training seminar that is going on in his school for poor children. Read about the goals and new projects. | ||||
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Are Friends those with Similar Thoughts and Interest? - 3 Oct 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the question whether your friends are those people with whom you share interests and thoughts. Read about his idea of friendships. | ||||
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Are your virtual friends real friends? - 28 Sep 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the question if one can get real friends on the internet. Share your opinion if everything is fraud or if there are real friends online! | ||||
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Are your neighbours and colleagues your friends? - 25 Sep 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about neighbours and colleagues, how some people are friends and others fight a small war with these people. | ||||
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Loyalty Test - Not a Good Concept - 19 Sep 10 |
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| Swami ji writes about an Indian TV show in which a boy is seduced by an actress while the girlfriend is watching with a hidden camera. | ||||
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Happy Birthday Krishna! - 2 Sep 10 |
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| Read a birthday letter from Swami Balendu to Krishna, the Hindu God born in Vrindavan. It is a letter to a friend about the situation in Vrindavan. | ||||
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Food Camp in Flood Affected Area - 31 Aug 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the food-camp that they have set up in the flooded area in order to support people who do not have a kitchen to cook in anymore. | ||||
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Let them Go if they do not Accept your Love - 24 Aug 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the natural coming and going of people. If someone does not agree with your way but you are strong in your principles, they will leave you without any clear reason. | ||||
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Only School to Forbid Physical Punishment of Children - 22 Aug 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the non-violence concept of his school and how they are with this an exception in their town. | ||||
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Attention Seekers Get Healed by not Getting Attention - 16 Aug 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about people who cry for no reason in order to get attention and others who pretend to be possessed by spirits. | ||||
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Traditional Dress of Indian Women - 12 Aug 10 |
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| Swami ji describes the common dresses of Indian women: the Sari and the Salwaar Kameez or Punjabi Suit. | ||||
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Showing Love without Showing off - 11 Aug 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about exhibitionism of relationships and love. Love is not for showing off. Read what he suggests. | ||||
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Birthday Celebration of Yashendu at the Ashram - 8 Aug 10 |
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| Swami Ji tells of Yashendu's birthday at the Ashram in India. They played with water, searched presents in the garden and more. | ||||
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Energy Healing does not Follow Logical Rules - 4 Aug 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about healers who give dos and don\'ts for the time after their healing session. Read what Swami Ji tells for his healing sessions. | ||||
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Predictions come after the Catastrophe - 2 Aug 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about future-telling and why he does not believe in any kind of future-telling, including astrology, anymore. | ||||
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You Are Complete as You Are - 1 Aug 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes where you can turn when you are disappointed from fake therapists and healer: into yourself! | ||||
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Did not Have any Traumatic Experiences? - Invent Them! - 31 Jul 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about so-called therapists and healers who invent stories of events that have torn your soul in pieces so that they can fix it together again. | ||||
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What is a Soul? - 29 Jul 10 |
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| Swami Ji gives his definition of soul in which he believes and which has nothing to do with ghosts! | ||||
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Spiritual or Love Healing does not include Ghosts or Sex - 28 Jul 10 |
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| Swami Ji describes misconceptions of the word 'spiritual' and explains what spiritual healing sessions are for him. | ||||
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New School Year in India - 23 Jul 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the new school year in India and how they have again many more children who will study at their free charity school. | ||||
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Cultural Exchange between India and USA - 21 Jul 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about a cultural exchange week that his school in India does with a school in Texas, USA. | ||||
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Curiosity towards Westerners expressed in India - 17 Jul 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about westerners who come to India and are surprised that nobody is shy to express his curiosity, to look and to ask. | ||||
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Limited Words vs. Endless Love and Emotions - 13 Jul 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about expression of emotions and shows clearly why it is not possible to say ?I love you? and express all your love in these words. | ||||
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Love ending with a Fight in Court - 6 Jul 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about fights in court when a relationship or marriage breaks apart. Instead of love there is now ego and greed. | ||||
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Choosing between Love and Ego - 5 Jul 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the choice that some people are not aware of: you can choose if you want to be in love or in ego! | ||||
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Ego in Relationships - Separating mine and yours - 4 Jul 10 |
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| Swami ji writes about ego which can be a problem in relationships. When people separate their possession from their partners?, they make limits that finish the freedom of the relationship. | ||||
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Key for Success in Relationship - Dissolving your Ego in Love - 3 Jul 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about relationships and how they can be successful: they can certainly not work when you do not dissolve your ego! | ||||
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Listening to Silence - Being Tired of Noise - 2 Jul 10 |
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| Swami Ji describes how the constant noise in New York City made him tired and how he is happy to experience silence in Germany. | ||||
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Change in Relationships - 28 Jun 10 |
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| Swami ji writes about relations and how they can change depending on their purpose and nature. Read about how you can accept this change. | ||||
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Never Married, Single Man looking for Wealthy Wife - 27 Jun 10 |
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| Lonely Hearts Ad on Swami Balendu?s blog! Reply this unusual way of looking for a partner! | ||||
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You can only Express a tiny Part of your Feelings - 13 June 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about expression of feelings and how you cannot express the value of your feelings fully in speech. | ||||
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Can you Recite Mantras if you don?t Believe in God? - 6 June 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the role of God in praying and in Mantras. He tells where God is or is not when you say a Mantra. | ||||
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How Mantras work - 5 June 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about how Mantras work. For him they are like prayers and they can give you willpower, positivity, joy, stability and more which can help you indirectly to heal. | ||||
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Common Meals to Connect the Family - 3 Jun 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the tradition of having food together which in his opinion is very good for connecting the family members with each other. | ||||
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Feelings of Loss - Love stays in the Heart - 25 May 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the loss of his sister three and a half years ago and how he takes this tragic incident today. | ||||
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Prem Meditation and Child Sponsorships - 24 May 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about a beautiful afternoon with Prem Meditation that they had at the Yoga for Peace organizer Roz. She also sponsored a child. | ||||
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Physical Closeness is Key for Successful Relationships - 11 May 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about his time in Copenhagen and how people need physical closeness for succeeding in their relationship. | ||||
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I Love my Husband like a Brother - Losing Relationship Values - 10 May 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes that some people call their spouse their sibling just because they don?t have sex. Read why he believes this reduces the values of relationships. | ||||
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Reactions - Denial and Guilt - 7 May 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes how different people react on his diary entries about cheating. Some thank him, others feel very guilty. He explains the way out of the guilt. | ||||
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Happiness in spite of Envious Others - 6 May 10 |
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| Swami ji writes about the joy that you can feel in life even though others may feel bad when you are happy. | ||||
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How to Love a Criminal - 5 May 10 |
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| Swami ji writes about people who have to deal with criminals and who want to feel love for them. Read what he thinks about this. | ||||
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Cheating while being Honest is not Possible - 1 May 10 |
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| Swami ji writes about different attitudes about cheating and that it is not only about the physical act of having sex. | ||||
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Cheating starts with a feeling - 29 Apr 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about people who cheat on their partners, creating rules about how far they are allowed to go. But cheating starts before you have sexual intercourse. | ||||
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Infidelity - You Cheat your Partner and yourself - 28 Apr 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about people who try to find excuses for cheating their partner. Often they do not realize that with these excuses they actually cheat themselves. | ||||
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Cheating and Breaking Hearts - 27 Apr 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about people who cheat on their partners and people who were cheated on by their partners, which reasons they give and what he thinks about those reasons. | ||||
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Want Divorce? Looking for a Change? - 26 Apr 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about difficulties in the beginning of a marriage in India and after 10 or 15 years in the west. Do people get bored? | ||||
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Respect Yourself, then you can Respect Others - 25 Apr 10 |
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| Swami Balendu writes how important respect for yourself is because without it you cannot feel respect for others. | ||||
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Inseparable Couples - Great Love or Dependency? - 24 Apr 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about couples who are non-stop together and who don?t seem to have an opinion on their own. Read why this can happen through insecurity. | ||||
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A Real Relationship - Devotion and Life together - 23 Apr 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about relationships that only exist because society tells you, you should have a relationship. | ||||
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Our Relationship is Perfect - 20 Apr 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about his relationship and why he wishes for everyone to have the same feeling that he has. | ||||
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In Love Ego can be Dissolved - 19 Apr 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about devotion and how love finishes duality in which you would say ?mine? or think that you need more freedom. | ||||
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Freedom is no Excuse for Cheating - 18 Apr 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about devotion in relationships and how some people cheat in the name of freedom. Read Swami Balendu?s opinion on this. | ||||
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Spiritual Healing for Mental as well as Physical Problems - 15 Apr 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about his healing sessions which can also help physical problems. Read more about how. | ||||
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No Supernatural Powers and not a Member of the Esoteric Scene - 14 Apr 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes that the changes in his healing sessions just make more clear who he is and who he is not. He doesn?t do miracle healing and doesn?t have supernatural powers. Read more. | ||||
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Ashram - a place to connect - 12 Apr 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about what he wants people to feel in his ashram: a connection to the family and to the children of the charity school. | ||||
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Ashram welcomes guests and friends but no cheaters - 11 Apr 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the expenses of his Ashram for each visitor and how some people cheat by not even giving a small donation. | ||||
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Travelling without Expectations of Guests and Hosts - 8 Apr 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about travelling and how he doesn?t behave as a guest or host because it brings expectations and stress. | ||||
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Dishonesty of Fashion Industry - Impossible Ideals of Beauty - 7 Apr 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the illusion of an ideal of beauty that the fashion industry creates. Upholstered bras and push-ups are what gives him the idea of the topic. | ||||
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A New Way of Spiritual Healing - 29 Mar 10 |
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| Swami Ji talks about the changes in his spiritual healing sessions and how he brings his healing work to a new level. | ||||
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Birthday Party for Ramona - 19 Mar 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about Ramona?s birthday, how they celebrated with the children and are going to have a party in the evening. | ||||
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Greeting with Namaskar and negative Energies -11 Mar 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the greeting Namaskar and how some people believe women should cover their head when greeting God with Namaskar. | ||||
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Why do Religions Emphasize Celibacy - 7 Mar 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the sexual desire that religions want to control and suppress to be able to have more power. | ||||
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Advice to Swami Hiding after Sex Scandal - Be Honest - 4 Mar 10 |
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| Swami Ji tells the fake guru who was caught in a sex scandal not to hide but instead to come out and say honestly that he has sexual feelings just like everyone else. | ||||
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Brahmacharya or Celibacy - the most unnatural concept on earth - 1 Mar 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about Brahmacharya as it is seen today and how celibacy doesn’t have anything to do with it. Your sexuality is just natural. | ||||
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No Religion, no Guru and no Sin - Just live Life - 26 Feb 10 |
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| Swami Balendu writes how religions talk of sins to make others afraid so that they follow their rules. But you cannot learn spirituality and love, you just need to live your life in honesty, it will come by itself. | ||||
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Supernatural Healing Powers or just Nature - 22 Feb 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about healing miracles, how he was also in the guru business and how his opinion and his ideas changed with time. | ||||
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Attraction of Love - 15 Feb 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes that in the same way that we are attracted by material we are also attracted to love. | ||||
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Celebrate Love Every Day - 14 Feb 10 |
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| Swami ji writes about Valentine's Day. Should we really celebrate love only one day a year? | ||||
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No Limits to Material, Love and God - 13 Feb 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about attachment to material and to love. Both don | ||||
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Connect to God without Rituals - 11 Feb 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the connection to God that everybody has just by being in love, without any ritual, without a mala and without a certain Mantra. | ||||
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Showing off Spirituality and Religion - 9 Feb 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about people who show off their spirituality and religion and seem to have a kind of spiritual ego which makes them do this. | ||||
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The View of a Child on the World - 5 Feb 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about how children see the world from their small point of view which expands steadily and grows more and more. | ||||
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Growing Children Need Balanced Atmosphere - 3 Feb 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the influence that the atmosphere at home has on the development of a child already in early years. | ||||
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Wishes for Success, Happiness and Love - 21 Jan 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the wishes that we have in life. Wish for it and you can make it real! Read how! | ||||
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Experiences, Senses, Feelings and just Love - 20 Jan 10 |
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| Swami ji writes about the different ways how people experience a feeling. Write him how you experience love. | ||||
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Love the Habits of your Partner - 19 Jan 10 |
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| Swami ji writes about small habits that everyone has. Does your partner make strange noises when laughing or sipping coffee? Accept and love it! Read more here. | ||||
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Ego and Small Annoying Habits in Relationships - 18 Jan 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about it when small things annoy the partner in a relationship and how you can find back to love. | ||||
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Devotion in Relationships - 17 Jan 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about devotion in relationships. Was is more important, physical closeness or devotion? | ||||
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Relationships Need Physical Closeness - 16 Jan 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes the need of physical closeness in relationships. In a relationship partners need someone to physically lean on and hold. | ||||
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Arranged Marriages in Earlier Times and Now - 15 Jan 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the concept or arranged marriages and how it has changed from former times to now. The basic idea behind it was that love can grow with time. | ||||
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Basic Need for Security, Closeness and Love - 8 Jan 10 |
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| Swami ji writes about the deep wishes of everyone, our basic needs for security, closeness and love. | ||||
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Does time heal all wounds? - 05 Jan 10 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the saying that time heals all wounds, even if they are deep injuries in the heart caused by separation or being cheated upon. | ||||
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Relationships and Advice for Singles - 2 Jan 10 |
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| Swami ji writes about relationships and about advice for singles that some people like to give. But you need time to get to know the other one in any case. | ||||
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Love, Relationships, Separation and friends - 29 Dec 09 |
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| Swami ji writes how friends and family sometimes give advice for relationship and love and although they mean it well it makes sense to think about it once more before following it. | ||||
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Disappointment in Love and Sadness because of Love - 28 Dec 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about disappointment in love and how you should not stop your love for yourself. | ||||
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Expectations on India Journeys - 11 Dec 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about people who travel to India expecting it to be clean. They are surprised that on their journey to India they find it being dusty and sandy. | ||||
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No Paranormal Abilities in my Spiritual Healing Sessions - 3 Dec 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about his own spiritual healing sessions which work through psychological effects as well as the healing power of love, not through any paranormal abilities. | ||||
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Healers and their Explanation when their Healing Fails - 1 Dec 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about people who become priests, gurus or healers just because they have nothing else to do. Often they also announce that they have special abilities or powers. | ||||
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Sharpeners are for Pens, not for Fingers! - 20 Nov 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about Suraj, who hurt himself on a pencil sharpener but didn't even notice. | ||||
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Do not Be Disappointed if I prefer being in Silence - 5 Nov 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes that he loves to be in silence and not to speak much, not only when he is abroad and busy but also when he is at home in the Ashram. | ||||
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Philosophy of Guru Nanak Dev - Compassion and Love through God - 2 Nov 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about Guru Nanak Dev, whose birthday was on this day. He tells about his message of love and oneness. | ||||
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Arranged Marriages only in the same Caste and Sub-Caste - 27 Oct 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about inter-cast marriage and the casts and sub-casts that are usually important for deciding for a marriage. | ||||
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Dissolve Emotions in an Atmosphere of Love - 16 Oct 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the atmosphere at the Ashram where all kinds of emotions can come out, even if it is sadness or anger. It will be dissolved in love and happiness. | ||||
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Respect Food - Do not Waste it - 18 Sep 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about love and respect which you should feel for the food that you buy, cook and eat. If you love your food you will take care not to waste it. | ||||
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The Ideal you are running after is not real - Accept Yourself! - 13 Sep 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about the competition that many people have with an imaginary 'better life' that they are trying to reach and achieve. | ||||
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Spiritually Confused People - 4 Sep 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about people who have the need to convince others of what they believe in. Just believe in love and you don't need to argue about it. | ||||
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Sharing, Shares, Shareholders, their Ego and how to Share with Love - 1 Sep 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about sharing which can be positive and negative. It is negative if the ego comes that you are owning something. It should be from love and from the heart. | ||||
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Tulsi Das about his Relation to God - 31 Aug 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about Tulsi Das who asks God to choose a way and come to Him instead of choosing a path himself. | ||||
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Goodbye to Tucson - 25 Aug 09 |
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| Swami Ji says goodbye to Tucson with his heart full of love and thanks everybody who welcomed him with love. | ||||
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God Knows what is Best for you - 22 Aug 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the trust in God that he does whatever is best for you. Even if you were in a bad situation, you can now look back and see that something good came out of this. | ||||
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Real Gurus and Worship of fake Gurus - 20 Aug 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the real meaning of the word guru. It means teacher and in this way he has and had many gurus. | ||||
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What is True Spirituality - 17 Aug 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the definition of spirituality. It is often defined by a certain lifestyle which includes meditation and yoga. But for him it is just about living in love. | ||||
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Paramahansa - Real Meaning and Abuse - 14 Aug 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the word Paramahansa which many people use just to have a nice title but if you know the real meaning of it, it is connected with much love and respect and a high consciousness. | ||||
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Nothing else but Praying and Love - 9 Jul 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about his healing work and that he doesn't believe in black magic which some people want to talk to him about. | ||||
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Anger of Parents if Child broke something - 29 Jun 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about parents who hit their children. They think they give the child a lesson but the child would learn more if you gave more love instead. | ||||
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Keeping those who Died in the Heart - 19 Jun 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about death and how small rituals can help you keeping a beloved person in the heart. | ||||
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Touch Healing - Important is your Experience - 13 Jun 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the beauty of life which comes with love. We need to see that life is wonderful and we have life and enjoy life. | ||||
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Do not let your Ego destroy your Friendships - 2 Jun 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about ego and friendship and how ego seems to be the base of the material-oriented society. | ||||
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If you are Homosexual, do not try to look Heterosexual - 29 May 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about homosexuality and how society sometimes bring people to go back into old patterns because society doesn?t accept their homosexuality. | ||||
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Homosexuality and Personality Conflicts - 28 May 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about homosexuality. He doesn't see any problem in sex with the same gender, only if you play the role of the other gender, it can create conflicts of personality in you. | ||||
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Forgiving can be the biggest Lesson - 27 May 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about forgiveness and how we need to learn that we need to forgive ourselves, too. | ||||
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You need Feelings like Sadness and Anger - 26 May 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about how he learns from experiences of sadness, anger and other emotions. Only if you know how this apin feel you can help someone in pain. | ||||
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One Spark, Another Spark and where is the Love? - 17 May 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the spark in relationships. He says the spark is not love, it is just a spark. Real love is light which shows you the way. | ||||
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Fantasy of Peace and Love without Borders, Religions or Ego - 2 May 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about a fantasy of a world without differences, anger, ego, religions or borders. Everyone should be same, with the energy of love being a part of all of us. | ||||
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Jealousy in Family for the Happiness of the Other one - 29 Apr 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about jealousy and competition among family members. There should be love and not the ego to be better or have better things. | ||||
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Made a Mistake? Turn Around! - 28 Apr 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about ego which sometimes keeps people from being honest. And then it keeps them from changing the way. | ||||
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Compromising with your Honesty? - 27 Apr 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about compromises and being honest. Live honestly with your values and principles, otherwise you will feel guilty. | ||||
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Ego can Destroy whole Families - Comparing India and West - 25 Apr 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about ego which can make blind and bring anger which can destroy a lot and just makes problems in families and friends. This happens especially in the west. | ||||
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Feedback for Yesterday's Diary about Love - 24 Apr 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about a reaction that he received for his diary about trust and love. | ||||
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Making Happy the Ones you Love - 19 Apr 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about happiness and love. Make your beloved one happy and you will make yourself happy at the same time. | ||||
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Prostitution Business - Trying to Buy and Sell Love? - 20 Mar 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about a prostitute who came for a healing session. He writes about her work and about sex without feelings. | ||||
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Sex and Love, Making of Love and what lies beyond - 18 Mar 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about love which is sometimes misunderstood as something purely sexual which is a pity as it is so much more. | ||||
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Our Ashram in India - a Place for Love - 17 Mar 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about the love of some places which attract others who feel well in this love. | ||||
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A Small Child in Love - 16 Mar 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about the innocent natural love that the three year old Kanu has for Angie, who came to the Ashram today. | ||||
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Holi - Religious Background of the Bonfires - 10 Mar 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about the religious background of the fires that will be burnt tonight, in the last night of Holi, the colour festival. | ||||
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Help for Letting Go after a Separation - 28 Feb 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about a woman who has a problem with letting go. She has been separated from her boyfriend for five months but still feels betrayed that he has another girlfriend. | ||||
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Money and Spiritual Work fit together! - 20 Feb 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about money and spirituality and why it is not anything bad to accept money for doing energy work. | ||||
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Goodbye-Letter to my little Friend - 9 Feb 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about saying goodbye to a small girl who is in his heart after being in her house for one week. | ||||
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If you eat Animal, why not Human? - 7 Feb 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about vegetarianism and that it is not only a question of health but of sensitivity and spirituality. | ||||
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You are either fully Vegetarian or not at all! - 6 Feb 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about vegetarianism and that you can only be 100% vegetarian, you cannot be something in between. Make your decision to live without killing. | ||||
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Can a Friendship turn into a Relationship? - 18 Jan 09 |
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| Swami ji talks about friends who turn into partners and how with this frame of a 'relationship' expectations rise. | ||||
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Last day in Scotland with unconditional Love - 11 Jan 09 |
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| Swami ji writes about his day which was full with healing sessions, Darshan and a Chakra Dance Party. | ||||
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Ego and Anger after Divorce - 9 Jan 09 |
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| Swami Ji writes about divorces and how anger and ego can become so big that people forget the love for the children. | ||||
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Difference in Liking and Loving - 28 Dec 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes about unconditional love. He doesn't believe that you can have love in different qualities, it is just love. | ||||
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Decision to Love - Arranged Marriages and Love at first Sight - 27 Dec 08 |
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| Swami ji writes about the decision to love. The love is inside you and you can give it a direction in which it should flow. | ||||
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Love at First Sight - How does it Happen? - 26 Dec 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes about love at first sight and how love can flow without any condition or reason just from the heart if something that you see touches your heart. | ||||
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Differences in Love to Different People? - 24 Dec 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes about his Christmas celebration and about the questions that a friend sent to him. | ||||
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Expectations and Honesty - Fulfill them or stay honest? - 22 Dec 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes about people who ask him for his opinion already expecting a certain answer. But often he replies in a way which they did not expect. | ||||
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Conditioning with Love - Feeling Guilty when not Fitting in - 21 Dec 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes about patterns of thinking from the childhood which can create inferiority complexes and the feeling of not being loved. | ||||
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Parallels in Indian and Western Culture, Religion and Society - 16 Dec 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes about similarities in Indian culture and European culture, in Hinduism and Christianity and in their history. | ||||
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Feel Beautiful without Make-up! - 8 Dec 08 |
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| Swami ji writes about the beauty of each soul and how it should be seen instead of putting all emphasis on the physical apprearance. | ||||
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Make a Change - Give Respect! - 30 Nov 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the relation that the younger and the older generation have with each other. He tells how to break this cycle of disrespect and get back into a loving relation. | ||||
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Respect for Older People - Love for Younger Ones - 29 Nov 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the conflict between the younger and the older generation. Disrespect and loneliness at a high age are very important topics. | ||||
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Getting Hurt Over and Over Again in Relationships - 26 Nov 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes about one night stands and how the fear of being hurt can lead to a life in which you do not want to have relationships. | ||||
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Arranged Marriage and its Basic Concept - 21 Nov 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes about arranged marriages in India and about how the concept of this relationship was thought to be. | ||||
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How can you Cheat and not want to get hurted yourself - 20 Nov 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes about relationships and about cheating, about hurting somebody while you are afraid of being hurt yourself. | ||||
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Finding a Partner for Life, not for a Short Time - 19 Nov 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes about relationships and the difficulties that have to be faced when finding the right partner. He tells why many relationships fail. | ||||
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Make a Rope out of the Threads of your Love - 16 Nov 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes about how to make a relation to God with all emotions and to give love to God as a mother, father and even as money and your body. | ||||
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Lord Ram about the Relation to God and to Others - 15 Nov 08 |
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| Swami ji writes about how we can make our relation with God. We can take the threads of our emotions and braid them to a big strong rope. | ||||
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Swami Ji about his Personal Relation to God - 14 Nov 08 |
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| Swami ji writes about his own relation to God. For him God is a friend whom you can trust and whom you can love. To whom you can say everything. | ||||
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Experience of a Relation to God - 13 Nov 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes the text of a friend about the constantly changing relation to God who sometimes is a father, sometimes a mother and sometimes his wife. | ||||
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Fix any Relation you want with God - 12 Nov 08 |
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| Swamiji writes about the relation that you can make with God and how He, too, will take care of it. | ||||
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Death of a Mother - 11 Nov 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes the poem of a friend who writes from the time when he sat on his mother's deathbed. His love and thankfulness show in the poem. | ||||
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Friendship in spite of Differences in Opinion - 10 Nov 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes about his friendship with Govind which exists although there are great differences. | ||||
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Open, Short-term, Long-term Relations and One-Night-Stands - 8 Nov 08 |
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| Swami ji writes about terms like 'short-term relationship', 'long-term relationship' or 'open relationship'. He also talks about one-night stands. | ||||
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You want Change - Change Yourself - 7 Nov 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes about acceptance in relationships. Do not expect your partner to change if you cannot change yourself. | ||||
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Stay Stable in the Form of Relation you have - 6 Nov 08 |
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| Swami ji writes about relationships and how the wishes of the partner have to be respected from both sides. Only in this way you can keep your relationship in a healthy way. | ||||
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Tulsi Das and his Relation to God - 5 Nov 08 |
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| Swami ji writes about the relation between God and human. Human also needs a form of relation to enjoy the love with God. | ||||
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Expectations on how Others should be - 4 Nov 08 |
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| Swami ji writes about the reason why today's relationships do not work: expectations on both sides instead of unconditional love. | ||||
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Bhakti Yoga - Love God to have a Connection on all Levels - 3 Nov 08 |
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| Swami ji writes about the relation that one can have with God and how one can experience Him even physically, when one loves him on a soul level. | ||||
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Soul Connection with God - 2 Nov 08 |
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| Swami ji talks about the relation that you can establish with God. With him you can only make a relation on the soul level. | ||||
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Do not Become Mother of your Partner - 1 Nov 08 |
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| Swami ji talks about relations and relationships in which a certain stability is needed. You should not change roles for example you should not become like a mother for your partner. | ||||
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Conversation with God - Poem by Sri Bindu Ji - 21 God 08 |
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| Swami ji writes a poem of his grandfather in which the author talks with God about his love and how he is longing to meet God. | ||||
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Modesty in Front of God - Poem by Sri Bindu Ji - 20 Oct 08 |
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| Swami ji writes another poem from his grandfather about the devotion and the love to God and which desire and longing you can have for the Divine. | ||||
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Desire, Longing and Love for God - Poem by Sri Bindu Ji - 19 Oct 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes another poem from his grandfather which is about the longing and the desire to meet God which can make you cry and can make you go crazy. | ||||
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Not a Guru or Master - just your Friend - 17 Oct 08 |
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| Swami ji writes about a family who belonged to his disciples in former times and although he doesn't see himself as a guru anymore they come to visit him at the Ashram. | ||||
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Does God have a Form? - Poem by Sri Bindu Ji - 13 Oct 08 |
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| Swami ji writes a poem from his grandfather about the question if God is formless or if he has a form. | ||||
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Love never Finishes - 10 Oct 08 |
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| Swami Ji talks about the fourth chakra and of course about love and emotions. He says that love cannot be finished, true love cannot be over, even if a relationship breaks. | ||||
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First Chakra Issues: Insecurity, Relationship and Ego Problems - 6 Oct 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes about problems that come from blockages in the first chakra. People have insecurity and problems with their ego. | ||||
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People of Vrindavan and their Relation to God - 5 Oct 08 |
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| Swami Ji talks about Vrindavan and people's attitude here towards God. In Vrindavan people see Krishna as a friend or neighbor with whom they have an informal relationship. | ||||
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Vrindavan - City of Love and Devotion - 4 Oct 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes about Vrindavan, the town of Krishna, of love and devotion. He explains the different attitude of people here towards life and also liberation. | ||||
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Open your Heart for Love - 30 Sep 08 |
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| Swami Ji writes about the festival Navratri and the meaning of this celebration. Her talks about Durga and her influence on our energy system. | ||||
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God is there for Everyone - Poem of Sri Bindu Ji - 24 Sep 08 |
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| Swami ji tells one poem from his grandfather in which he writes that God can accept even those who do not have very big love and devotion. | ||||
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Drowning in the Ocean of Love - Poem by Sri Bindu Ji - 22 Sep 08 |
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| Swami Ji translates one poem from his grandfather in which he talks to God and tells how he would like to be. Swami ji also tells about the Yoga Teacher training course that will take place in the Ashram. | ||||
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Meet God in Love - Poem by Sri Bindu Ji - 21 Sep 08 |
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| Swami Ji gives another poem of his grandfather and also talks about the food for the day which was sponsored today. The children are very thankful. | ||||
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Longing for God 1- Poem of Sri Bindu Ji - 17 Sep 08 |
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| Swami Ji translates a poem of his grandfather Sant Bindu Ji in which he talks about the longing to see God, to have Him in the life and to experience His love. | ||||
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Path of Love - Poem by Sri Bindu Ji - 16 Sep 08 |
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| Swami Ji translates literature of his grandfather Sant Bindu Ji. He talks about the changes that came into his life after falling in love with God. | ||||
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River of Love - Poem by Sri Bindu Ji - 15 Sep 08 |
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| Swami Ji translates one of the poems of his grandfather who writes about love, God and devotion. | ||||
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God came in form of Pain, too - Poem by Sri Bindu Ji - 14 Sep 08 |
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| Swami Ji translates a poem which his grandfather Sant Bindu Ji wrote. It is about the situation of his heart, the love and devotion that he has for God. | ||||
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Link Exchange with Love Spells Website? - 12 Sep 08 |
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| Swami Ji talks about an event in the Kindergarten and about a link exchange request that he received to the website of someone selling love spells. | ||||
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Nidhivan - Garden of Love - 9 Sep 08 |
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| Swami Ji tells from Nidhivan, the garden in the heart of Vrindavan which has a wonderful atmosphere but which you are not allowed to step in during night. | ||||
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Celebrating the Birthday of Radha, Swami Haridas and Sri Bindu Ji - 8 Sep 08 |
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| Swami Ji talks about Radha and her birthday which was celebrated today. He talks about the incredible love of Krishna and Radha. | ||||
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Life on Earth - the House of Sorrows - 29 Aug 08 |
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| Swami ji talks about pain and sorrows. The Gita says the world is a house of sorrows. So you need to be thankful for happiness and a smile. | ||||
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Help others, older People and Neighbours - 21 Aug 08 |
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| Swami Ji tells about his travelling life and how he has to say goodbye often. He also says that you need to treat others in the way that you expect them to treat you. | ||||
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Trust is Good and Control is NOT better! - 20 Aug 08 |
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| Swami Ji talks about the saying 'Trust is good, control is better'. Maybe this is the reason for a missing closeness in relationships in the west. | ||||
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Love Spells cannot Work - Love is not Sellable or Forcable - 17 Aug 08 |
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| Swami ji writes about love spells and rituals that some people sell on the Internet. Others want to buy and even ask Swami ji for spells. True love however works without spells. | ||||
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God does not Punish - you are not a Sinner - 11 Aug 08 |
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| Swami ji tells about a friend from Indonesia who is Moslem. She told him about her attitude towards praying and that she now doesn?t do it out of duty but of love. | ||||
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God is always open for Closeness and Love - 7 Aug 08 |
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| Swami ji talks about closeness to God and in between people. God is love, always open for your love and always ready to receive your love with open arms. | ||||
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Pray from your Heart, not as an empty Ritual - 5 Aug 08 |
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| Swami ji talks about closeness to God and how a prayer is a way to create closeness. A prayer and a ritual doesn?t always contain strict rules that you need to follow but has to come from your heart. | ||||
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I love this World - I want to be reborn - 4 Aug 08 |
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| Swami Balendu talks about his relationship to God, how he sees and feels God when he loves someone and how this will make him refuse liberation, refuse Nirvana. | ||||
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Being close to God - Poem by Sri Bindu Ji - 3 Aug 08 |
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| Swami Ji talks about God and the closeness to God which makes it possible to have a close relation to Him. It is devotion and love that make this relation special. | ||||
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Searching and Longing for Love - A Poem fo Sri Bindu Ji - 2 Aug 08 |
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| Swami ji talks about love, about God and about the circle of lives that you go through in the search for the love of God, the natural wish of each human. | ||||
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The Vata Dosha and Your Desires - 31 Jul 08 |
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| Swami ji talks about how an imbalance of vata affects the body and the mind and what you can do against unwished desire and lust: Go the path of Prem Yoga and surrender yourself. | ||||
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Are you too Kind? Do not let others take Advantage of you - 22 Jul 08 |
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| Swami Ji talks about the good nature especially of women, which sometimes is taken advantage of. Find happiness for yourself and then you can make others happy. | ||||
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You cannot heal by being tricky - 17 Jul 08 |
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| Swami ji talks about honesty. You need to be honest with yourself, your feelings and emotions. You cannot be tricky with love or emotions. | ||||
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Offer your wishes and longings to God - 7 Jul 08 |
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| Swami Ji tells how important it is to have the right attitude and mood when you do something. Your energy will influence the result. | ||||
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Money for Energy Healing Sessions - 28 Jun 08 |
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| Swami Balendu talks about his healing energy. It comes from the love and works if you come with trust. You cannot sell this love for money. | ||||
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Fortune Tellers, Life-Changing Predictions and Other Humbug - 16 Jun 08 |
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| Swami Ji talks about people who predict the future and give advice which is coming from their bad experience. | ||||
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Let Emotions and Love flow without Limits - 11 Jun 08 |
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| Swami Ji talks about the limits that people set themselves to their feelings and emotions. But love exists without limits. | ||||
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Energies in a Spiritual Healing Session - 30 May 08 |
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| Swami Ji explains the two different kinds of negative energy that we have in our body and how his individual healing sessions can help. | ||||
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Be Addicted to the Drug of Love - 22 May 08 |
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| Swami Ji's opinion to drugs and spirituality: you do not need drugs to be in the state of ecstasy. You can be addicted to the most powerful drug: Love | ||||
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Why do you eat Pig and Cow but not your Dog? - 18 May 08 |
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| Killing animals for eating them is cruel and unnecessary. Cows, pigs and chicken have the same right to live like pets! Be sensitive and live a vegetarian life! | ||||
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Acts of Love - 16 May 08 |
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| Questions and Answers with Swami Ji about the Karma of mentally disabled people and about actions of love. | ||||
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Four Different Types of Lovers - 12 May 08 |
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| Swami ji explains the four types of lovers: those who love to get something, those who make a contract, the love in a family and unconditional, universal and cosmic love. | ||||
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Spiritual Seekers Divided into Four Categories - 11 May 08 |
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| Swami ji explains the four types of spiritual people: The seekers, the good disciples, the devotees and the intellectuals. | ||||
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Feeling Guilty - Finding Peace - 8 May 08 |
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| Many people come to Swami Ji and tell him that they feel guilty for something they did. Read in his diary about one man and what Swami Ji replied to him. | ||||
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In Love is no Attachment - 30 Apr 08 |
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| When you are fully detached you will not feel pain in your body. Swami Ji tells the story of a gyan yogi. | ||||
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Love or only Attachment - Expectations make the Difference - 29 Apr 08 |
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| Is it love or is it only attachment? Swami Balendu explains the difference in his diary. | ||||
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Truth of Feelings - Guests and Hosts and Expectations - 8 Apr 08 |
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| Swami Ji talks about hurt, anger and disappointment on the example of his recent experiences. | ||||
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Fear Created in the Name of Religion - 4 Apr 08 |
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| Swami Ji talks about religion and tradition. For him, the biggest religion is love. | ||||
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No Fear of Punishment of God - 3 Apr 08 |
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| Swami Ji talks about fear of God's punishment. God does not judge or punish. | ||||
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Give Love to Get Love - Feeling of Not Being Loved - 25 Mar 08 |
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| Many people feel that they are not loved by anyone. Swami Balendu says that you have to give love if you want to get love. | ||||
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How Quickly Feelings Can Change - 22 Mar 08 |
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| Swami Ji asks how people can change so quickly from one day to another. Isn't it dishonesty? | ||||
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Four Steps to a Successful Relationship - 20 Mar 08 |
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| Swami Ji explains the four steps to a relationship: knowing each other, trust, love and then a relationship. | ||||
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Respect in Relationships - the Base for Love - 10 Mar 08 |
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| If you love and respect your partner or anyone else unconditionally you accept the whole person, the whole soul with all qualities. | ||||
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Respect others Unconditionally how they are - 09 Mar 08 |
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| Swami Ji talks about unconditional love: unconditional trust and unconditional respect are the base for it and thus essential to make a relationship work. | ||||
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Trust in Friendship instead of Expectations - 08 Mar 08 |
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| Swami Ji talks about trust in very good friendships in which it is not necessary to talk and meet often. You will still be friends even if you do not meet for a long time. | ||||
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Old School Friends meeting again - 23 Feb 08 |
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| Swami Ji talks about friendships without expectations as he met old friends from school. | ||||
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Satisfaction as the Key to Happiness - 04 Feb 08 |
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| Swami Ji talks about the importance of satisfaction. It is not dependent on wealth or money. It is a question of being satisfied in your heart. | ||||
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Our Perception of Beauty - 1 Feb 08 |
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| Each person has another perception of beauty. That is why Swami ji says that everyone is beautiful even if TV and media give a certain parameter for beauty. | ||||
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Trust in Relationships - 30 Jan 08 |
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| Swami Ji tells one reason why relationships do not last long anymore in the western world. | ||||
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Monthly Full Moon Distance Healing Meditation - 22 Jan 08 |
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| Each fullmoon night Swami Ji gives distance healing to participants all over the world who connect in this way with him and each other. | ||||
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Fear of Silence and of Being Alone - 21 Jan 08 |
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| Are people in the West afraid of silence? Swami Balendu asks why people cannot be in silence even when they are alone. | ||||
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Love is my Religion and Tradition - 19 Jan 08 |
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| For Swami Ji, Love is the biggest religion. If it is Christianity, Hinduism or anything else, God is one. | ||||
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Accept, respect and love yourself - 16 Jan 08 |
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| Swami Balendu always says: Accept yourself, respect yourself and love yourself, then you can love others. | ||||
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Where poverty is widespread, people believe more in religions. They are uneducated but they have hopes and dreams, based on God. Some gurus take advantage of their dreams and suck the little money that they have out of them. Let’s spread education so that they can really live their dreams.
Children
Video games taught children that violence and rioting is fun! They learned how it should look like when you break into a store and when they see that it works, they get greedy and steal mobile phones, game consoles, electronics and more. I think violent video games have encouraged teenagers to see this all as fun!
Religion
Isn’t it crazy how religion is often only a way to manipulate people? Just tell people often enough that something is God’s wish and they will believe it!
Children
Every child is same and when you have this wish to give love to children, you should share your love with every child, no matter if it is yours or the child of someone else.
Children
The only good reason for the wish to have a child is because you have love in your heart and you want to share it with a child. You want to give a child the happiness that you feel when you are loved and when you can love someone.
Cheating
Cheating never works and never makes you happy. Talk with your partner about it instead. Show your husband or wife that you cherish the love in between you and that you won’t do this step that others have done in your situation.
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We are one world and all are humans, not divided by race, colour, language, culture or religion. Keep in mind that we all are human.
Children
Let your children grow up without learning violence in video games. Teach them instead to play with each other, not against each other. Show them that a child of another nation and maybe with another language is just as valuable as they are themselves.
Freedom
If you want to follow a Guru, a master, a sect leader or any kind of belief, don’t have your children affected, too! Give your children the possibility to decide themselves. Show them the normal world, let them develop properly with the full capacity of their mind to be critical, to think about everything themselves and with full emotional abilities, too! Give your child the freedom and the possibility of a healthy, normal lifestyle.
Scriptures
The scriptures of any religion, culture or country can be written by very intelligent people of old times and we can see them as great literature but they should not be taught to children as ideals of how to behave though. They are fiction and many of them are full of blood and violence, creating an illusion for children that this behavior could be religious and good.
Belief
Whatever your belief is, give your child as much freedom as possible to decide on his own. If you force a child into one belief, you don’t give its mind the possibility to develop in its own way.
Respect
Teach your children respect for others and themselves. Otherwise as adults they will start having psychic problems, don’t love themselves and don’t respect their body and feelings. Sometimes they even start hurting themselves. And there is nobody to stop them and set them limits. If they are not nice to you, why would they be nice to themselves?
Self-Confidence
Don’t be overprotective. Lack of self-esteem, indecision and also problems with getting into company of others are the consequences. Don’t overprotect, give freedom and let them make their experiences. They will shape the world of tomorrow, so don’t try to press them into your world. Let them free.
Decision
Life teaches every human. Let it teach your child, too! You are there for bigger problems, decisions and topics, you can protect when it is really necessary, but let your child face circumstances of life in which it learns of life. How will it learn otherwise?
Decision
Let your sons and daughters take their own decisions and carry the consequences. Don’t control every little detail but let them get the taste of being adult.
Parenting
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Change
If you experience something, don’t be shy to change your opinion, even if it is the opposite of what you thought before. Change if you believe it is necessary to change, otherwise it will cost you your happiness. If you change when it is right to change, you will see that new doors open for a better future.
Pets
We create an animal for our entertainment and give it pain for the rest of its life. This is not taking care of nature, this is not how we should live. We should think more of the animal than of us. Does the animal like living like this? Can I give the animal everything that it would have in free nature, too?
Presence
If nobody can know anyway what will happen on the next day, why should we worry about it? There will never be an answer! We will see what will happen and we will deal with whatever comes. The past is past and tomorrow will come. Live in the presence, today, now!
Prediction
There is no plan and nobody knows what will happen tomorrow. We can take our decisions and have to take our responsibility for the consequences. Nobody knows before what will happen if you go one way or the other.
Followers
I don’t like the word ‘follower’ or ‘disciple’. Guru simply means teacher, so if you have the need for a teacher, a guru, why don’t you call yourself student? Rather than being a follower who follows blindly like a sheep, you should be a student, eager to learn more, enthusiastic for getting more knowledge and experience.
Followers
Real followers always need someone to follow. When they get disappointed by the person they are following, they search for another one.
Scriptures
Scriptures were written by normal men. It was their experience but your experience can be very different. With time everything changes. If your experience is different than from what the Bible or the Gita tells you, why don’t you believe in yourself? Why don’t you trust your experience?
God
Don’t seek God in religious icons or figures. God is love and lives in our heart. If you, in a prayer or mantra, mention the name Jesus, Ram or also Hanuman, it doesn’t mean that you specify a religion you are praying to. You have God in your heart, no matter which name you say with your tongue.
Religion
Religion often has the effect of poison: it kills people, it separates them, it creates hate among them. Human is made by god and religion is made by man. God did not create people with different religions, he made us all the same.
Relationship
Anger, ego and other emotions sometimes create aggression but think how far you want to let these emotions take you. Who knows, maybe time changes and a bitter relation changes again for the better. Bitter and better is only one letter apart from each other.
Relationship
Sometimes need to let someone go who does not want to be around you anymore and with whom you cannot share your way anymore. It can happen that these relations get stronger again after some time. Try not to poison a relation. If it doesn’t work, quit quietly. If you can, don’t create bitterness in between you.
Friend
Give value to your relations and the people around you. See and feel their love and love them back. Store their love in your heart. Care for friendship, care for your relations, care for love.
Religion
I always believe that anything that causes fear and makes people worried and afraid is not right. You should give people trust, faith, love and compassion.
Friend
Real friendships get more and more beautiful the older they get. Keep them alive and enjoy the age of your friendships.
Relationship
Don’t bring business talk everywhere. Stop it, at the latest when you go into the bedroom. No business is allowed there anymore, just love and the relationship of you and your partner.
Feelings
You need to bring love and feelings into your work. Enjoy what you are doing, meet others with happiness and feelings instead of being like a stone. There are principles in business but they are man-made. Make love and feelings a part of those principles.
Self-Confidence
Judging is good and necessary. Use your general knowledge, your mind, your intelligence and also your feelings. You can ask experts, research on the internet and find out more if needed. Get an opinion and don’t be afraid of others criticizing it. Maybe this fear prevents people from judging, too. Have self-confidence and say what you think is right and what is wrong in your eyes.
Judging
‘You should not judge’ is often used by masters and Gurus to keep their disciples and followers from questioning what they are doing.
Judging
If you made it your habit not to ever judge anything and anybody, you would get psychological problems as you would not be able to make independent decisions on your own and would never know which way to go.
Judging
There would be no development if nobody ever judged. You would always accept everything as it is. We need to judge.
Responsibility
Now you are an adult and you can take your own responsibility in your hands, even if you feel your parents were overprotective. Leave this past behind. This world is not evil and not that dangerous at all. It is there to enjoy.
Fear
Fear is an illusion and it spoils your life. If you are afraid, you cannot enjoy. You are fine and you are able to cope with the situations that life brings you. Have trust in whatever is out there in this universe. The whole world is there for you, not against you. Let your fear go. Live.
Self-Confidence
Get the self-confidence to get out of the habits of comparing and pretending to be someone else. Love yourself, as you are. Accept whoever you are, respect your feelings of what you want to do and what you don’t want to do and love! Then your mind will be free from the worry and you will realize that others do love you as you are.
Self-Confidence
You are loveable, lovely and loving. You don’t need to do any change to yourself to please another person. You don’t need to play a role or wear a mask. This world is so big and there are so many different people in this world that it is normal if a few don’t agree with you or don’t like you. Stop comparing and just be yourself.
Meditation
Meditation is a good way to discover your feelings and to come from head to heart.
Love
If you feel you don't have love, you maybe only have lost your connection. If you did not have love, you would not be longing for love. This is the proof that you have love. You only need to reconnect with your feelings.
Change
There are some things that are stable through all changes of life and your love is one of them.
Change
If someone refuses to change while you yourself are developing, it can happen that you grow apart. At that point of life, you meet new people who can go along with your new view on the world. It is fine and a part of the change which we accepted in our lives.
Change
Change is normal and just a sign that you are alive and in the flow of life. We always change for the better when we make a conscious change and decide to change along with times. We are changing in every second and it is better to accept this change than to fight it.
Ego
Increase your ego until you say ‘I am god’. I am that. You are that source that you come from, you are that! Tat Tvam Asi. But not only you, everyone around you, too!
Ego
There is a thin line in between healthy pride and too much ego. Everybody needs some ego and everybody should be proud of himself. Without ego or pride you cannot survive. You cannot exist without ego because you need your ego to identify yourself.
God
God doesn’t want to own a house or a temple, he is just there, living in our heart. It is the greed of people who want to own land – and if they can possess it on the name of God, they do.
God
You cannot bargain with God and give a big donation for a big wish and a few coins for a small one. You give it to the temple, not to God. God doesn’t care about money.
Religion
You cannot buy blessings with a donation to a temple. You cannot buy luck and a good destiny like rice on the market. You have to create it yourself!
Gurus
Religion is like politics. It is a dictatorship with the Guru or leader being the dictator setting the rules. Start a spiritual revolution and come out of this suppression. Go towards real spirituality, towards democracy, where your voice is being heard.
Meditation
If you have practice of meditation, you are able to focus and decide what you want to think of. Through meditation and focus you can not only close the door of your office but also the door of your mind to work related topics in order to truly relax.
Freedom
If you see the typical lifestyle in the west, it is all about freedom. Freedom there does not usually mean freedom of the mind, of decision and independence of negativity but often means physical distance and financial independence.
Closeness
The base for strengthening an emotional connection is physical closeness. For any close emotional relation you need to be close physically.
Children
With children it is easy to have an emotional connection because they understand the language of emotions better than the language of intellect. If you talk to them with intelligent words, definitions and facts, they won’t understand you. If you reach out to them with love and happiness, you establish an emotional bridge in between you and them.
Ego
It is the ego of believing that you are perfect which kills all your happiness in what you do.
Rituals
We don’t need rituals to find God and God will not be especially happy if we do rituals for him. You can find God through love and by being in love, you do the best service to him that you can.
Perfectionism
The wish of being perfect is driven by the wish to be an expert. Leave this wish and get into your mind that there is always a possibility to do it better, to learn something. Improvement is always possible but you are fine just as you are!
Religion
Religion is a firm and strict structure whereas spirituality is soft and flowing. Religion presses into clear and edgy shapes whereas spirituality makes round and soft. Religion comes from the mind and spirituality from the heart.
Religion
I heard Jesus is not usually an angry or short-tempered guy. He, too, believed in love instead of punishment.
Belief
Belief and religion is a personal thing. Religious leaders of any religion, be that Hinduism, Islam, Christianity or any other religion, have no right to tell people what to believe.
Friend
Even if your thoughts do not match, you can still be friends. Even if you disagree in a hundred of points, you can be friends. You need to agree at least on this one point though: you trust each other and have love for each other.