Sex in the Mind - Sex Sells - Porn Movies and Advertisement - 1 Apr 09

01 Apr 2009  Vrindavan, India

Category: Sex

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Yesterday I talked about it how women are disrespected and disrespect themselves when they exhibit their body. If you see all the business of adult magazines and porn movies, what are they trying to do? Selling the naked body of a woman to attract mentally sick people who have sex in the level of the mind. The whole porn industry is running only because sex took place in the mind.

I always say in my workshops and seminars that sex is a very holy and spiritual act and the subject of soul and body, but not of the mind. If it comes into the mind, it will make you sick. You should enjoy sex with your soul and with your body. That is why I have said about sex very often: “Don’t think of it, just do it!” It is not the subject of thinking! People say everywhere that sex sells. TV, magazines, the internet, everybody is trying to sell sex and the naked body of women. In both, seller and buyer, sex took place in their thinking and it is making them sick. And it is true, sex sells.

I tell you a very practical example. We have made topics in the main page of our diary so that people can navigate in the pages of the diary by topics, too. And one day I asked Ramona which topic or category people look at the most. She looked at the statistics and told me that we have two topics which are very popular. The first one is ‘Sex’ and the second one ‘really nothing’. We had to laugh about this and we said obviously, sex sells.

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I'm not sure entirely what you are saying here, but I think I disagree. While I also acknowledge that the subject of sex has been completely over-analyzed to the point of disgust, I don't think there's any way to keep sex out of the mind entirely. The mind and body are in constant communication-- so when the body desires sex, it relays the information to the mind, which then feels horny. And when we are horny, we think about sex! It's inevitable. When we are hungry, we think about food. It's like mentally preparing your body for what is to come. It's how we excite and arouse the genitals and organs in order to prepare for the act of sex. Moreover, when we are horny in the body and mind, we enjoying thinking about, seeing, and having sex. That's why people enjoy porn so much... You can fully heighten the sensations of sex by including all of the senses and by engaging the mind, body, and soul together in an act of harmonious exchange. I don't think there's anything wrong with porn. Maybe the way women are treated or exhibited could be improved... but all together it's a normal thing.

Reply By Emily on October 26, 2011 12:05


I consider myself a pretty respectful dude, but I admit sex really gets to me in marketing.

Reply By Joseph Ward on January 05, 2011 12:20


The words "sex" and "pressure" always go together for me.

Reply By Holly on January 05, 2011 12:19


They look so warm!

Reply By Tabby on January 05, 2011 12:17


This entry made me laugh a deep belly laugh at the end. I love it! Your understanding of sex is very important to me. I mean you have said in words what I have not been able to grasp entirely until this moment.

Reply By Amanda Holt on October 22, 2010 03:57


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